So you say you're a closed person, and your brief description of your life supports that.
So I encourage you to look at your probable future. Look at the things you do now, the things you have now, and who your are being now. Because this is probably (not absolutely but probably) how its going to be tomorrow, next week, next month, etc... etc... And I'm going to guess its been that way for some time now.
So now you know how its probably, most likely going to go for you. What you have to get is you create that. Its all about who you are being. Who you be, drives what you do, and that in turn drives the results you have in life (eg: a shy person, will avoid asking someone they like out, therefore have no relationship).
So you may want to ask yourself what way of being inspires you. Another way to ask that question is who do you not get to be that you love to be. Once you discover that way, then ask yourself what would your life be like if you were that way.
Then just create that way of being as a new possibility to for yourself. If you come up with something that really inspires you and calls to you, it will be easy to live into that new future.
I created the possibility of being "Indiana Jones" a few years back. That symbolizes being adventurous for me. Since then I started my own company, started singing karaoke, have new relationship (that I love) all out of being adventurous. Is that scary at times... Absolutely, but when I am being adventurous I have the experience of being alive.
I'm not saying you should be adventurous. Thats what inspired me. You should find the thing that inspires you and live into that future.
2007-12-13 09:40:10
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answered by Nick A 3
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Try expressing yourself through other art forms such as free drawing, sculpture, etc. A counselor could help but it sounds like you just need to be around people in a structured social setting such as a book club, or writer's club or a service oriented group. The more we are around others and the more we impact our environment in a positive way the happier we tend to be.
2007-12-13 09:35:45
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answered by TAT 7
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I reply first, and if the answering makes me believe or makes my day, then I'll famous person. I recognise...it is choosy of me, sorry. o.o But this manner I come to be pointing my fanatics and contacts to the *well stuff* you understand? ^__^ Or a minimum of I attempt to. But have a celebrity besides only for being sufferer and information. ^_^
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answered by lepeska 4
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Just sit down and write. Even if you have nothing to write....write that down. It helps you sort out your thoughts. I do that once a day for fifteen minutes and it's almost like therapy for me. Any negative, positive, exciting or depressing things get down on paper and it sometimes almost makes up for not having anyone to talk to about it.
2007-12-13 09:36:18
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answered by ivyheatherclover 2
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My advice is to write out your frustration. Since you like writing, use it to get everything out.
I do it and it helps. After you've read it over, you can delete it. Writing out stuff really helps. You can even keep it and read it later on, when your depressed, because I find it better to read things I can relate to.
Hope you feel better =)
2007-12-13 09:36:59
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answered by Anonymous
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hey if you need ideas on a story write one about a woman that has a special power and dosn't know about it until she kills a person and she has to know all her powers so she dosn't hert any body else.
2007-12-13 09:36:22
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answered by usa4mod 1
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write about me .... I not ok, I live in russia, I 21 ears old an try to out of this system, but it's damn hard!!! I gat an big life story ...and my dream go to Video Game creator. but It's all in my head!
sorry for mistake's (*_*)
2007-12-13 09:37:32
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answered by its_hard_to_invent_id 1
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talk to a close person maybe like a boy friend or if you don't have one talk to your mom (not your dad) and put your mind on the positive
2007-12-13 09:31:21
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answered by webkinz fan 1
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I am the same, but I am opposite. I can only reveal myself thru writing, because I can sort my thoughts easier! ;)
2007-12-13 09:32:12
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answered by Anonymous
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want to help, but i dont know you and cant help:(
2007-12-13 09:30:40
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answered by Alisa 3
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