I feel like she doesn't connect with me like she should. Just one example Like in the middle of the night she wont fall back asleep for me she will just cry, but when i wake my mom up she'll fall right to sleep for her? Am i doing anything wrong or am i just to stressed right now and she can feel that?
2007-12-13 08:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by Valerie86 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You aren't doing anything wrong. You are just stressed out and she can sense that. My hubby feels awful because he feels that our son hates him. He can't get him to stop crying, but hands him to me and he stops instantly. It is nothing against you. The other girl is right, your baby loves you. You just need to calm down and try not to be so stressed when you are with her. Are you nursing? That should be a good bonding time with you two. If not, then try to be the only one to bottlefeed her for a day or two. Get her used to YOU giving her the things she needs. Diaper changes, snuggle time, food... it all corresponds. Don't for one second think that your baby doesn't like you. You gave her life. I hope this helps, and good luck to you and your little one!
2007-12-13 09:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Panda Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Daughter was the same it could be a couple things and any grandmother or mother of older kids IE me mines 3 in July, they will tell you that the more u stress the more she will pick up on that an play on it, also just for info if you are having trouble breast feeding one possible reason could be if you have your period back it will change the taste of your milk as well as your own smell, I was told that even a change in soap can make a difference.
Stress less relax in a chair an doze off with her worked for me (occasionally at least)
2007-12-13 09:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by gerkin_sanga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try singing to her, rocking her, or just talking to her. I wouldn't keep bringing your mom in to help calm her down unless you really need the help. Take a deep breath and keep trying. It's hard and babies sense how frustrated you are. I've been through this and will be going through it again soon. Good luck. I've also tried putting my daughter in her carseat then sitting it on the dryer while its on. The vibration put her to sleep quickly like she was in a car. Just don't try to move her as soon as shes asleep. Wait a little before putting her back in her crib.
2007-12-13 09:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by aprilm324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by stanberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are giving her your love everything will be fine. Yes, your correct she can feel your emotions. Your mother is older and has patience. Hold your new baby close to your heart and take deep breathes to relax and everything will be fine. You and your daughter already have bond she is use to the beat of your heart.
2007-12-13 09:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ko koa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can sense your stressed. Just relax and go with the flow. Your baby loves you.
2007-12-13 09:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can feel your stress! that happened to me too for a while...
2007-12-13 09:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋