why does it feel reallllllyyy good when someone plays with them? It bothers me because when my love does it it feels almost as good as when he goes downtown(I don't orgasm from breast play which is why it is an almost and not as good). Women tell me when I have kids it feels different when they eat but I don't see how(which is why I will formula feed) since it's the same sucking/licking/nibbiling thing going on. Why is it sexually enjoyable in the first place for women and not men?
I know this sounds bad but I want to know because I don't want kids partially because this bothers me so much.
2007-12-13 08:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I don't want to breast feed because right now breast play arouses me quite a lot and I am nervous if with a kid if it does the same the child will be taken away(there was a case like this not to long ago) not to mention it's wrong for me to feel that way when an infant is feeding. Right now I do not want kids and this is a factor in that choice.
2007-12-13 08:34:37 · update #1
Infact after havnig a baby and breastfeeding - will make u have bigger ones.
And dont u worry about ur feelings at the time of breastfeeding, Its a totally different story going on in there. You wont get aroused or have any such feelings, the poor lil baby just wants milk lol. Please dont deny the baby the right, coz everyone in todays date knows the advantages of breastfeeding.. avoiding future breast cancer in both mom and daughter(if daughter), and other such health pros of feeding babies.. both sexes.
But breast play is the starting of it all, and indeed the best.
dont worry, having kids or breastfeeding shudnt affect anything.
Yeah ur right, men I guess just dont share the same hot spots with women up there.
2007-12-13 08:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by shadows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel I could do it, personally. Obviously if the circumstances meant that my baby's only chance of survival was to feed from another breastfeeding woman then I would allow it, but in this day and age there are excellent quality formulas readily available..
2016-05-23 10:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way if it were painful to have your breasts sucked then babies would have starved to death before formula was invented. besides trust me it is a totally different feeling with a child than with your lover. with your lover it is for enjoyment to you both and with your child it is a bonding experience not to mention much healthier for the child. You wouldn't be looking at your child the same way as your boyfriend so the same feelings would not exist. If it bothers you that much don't breastfeed. just that simple but I wouldn't make it a reason to deny yourself having a child if that is what you want. good luck
2007-12-13 08:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by seminoleswty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have a couple of things wrong.
There is a big connection between the breasts and "down there". When in labor, birth coaches are encouraged to rub the nipples to increase contractions and hurry labor along.
If you dont breast feed - you will miss out on one of the best parts of being a mom. My wife would look so calm and peaceful when she was nursing our children and said it was one of the best parts about having children.
(Dont worry - you wont have sexual feelings nursing, but you will have intense warmth and sense of satisfaction feelings.)
And men - do like their nipples played with.
You are a lucky woman to have such sensations in your breasts. Enjoy it, but dont let it over-ride your common sense.
2007-12-13 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It feels good because it's supposed to encourage you to breast feed, not discourage! I'm not sure I understand your reasoning for choosing formula over breastfeeding since the benefits far outweigh your feeling uncomfortable. Also, some men do enjoy a good nipple-nibble.
2007-12-13 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by cmonmiracle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be different when you have kids. .
Just enjoy it with your partner and don't worry about the other...trust me it is different with a baby -- when they latch on -- it is tough and they mean business. It's all about the milk.
You will not feel sexual at all.
2007-12-13 08:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by kjay_39 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋