i haven't had a boyfriend in a while. and im getting. well lonely.
and i have feelings for this one guy who MAY have feelings for me. but im scared to open up to him cause we only talked at camp a little and ALOT on text msging and msn.
i mean we went to the movies. but it was kinda awkward...
lol
but what can i do.
btw im bi and i haven't come out of the closet.
i look at girls more than guys...
idk which i want though. i've never had a girlfriend.
2007-12-13 08:22:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
allso im kinda in highschooll...
2007-12-13 08:26:45 · update #1
I really feel for you! I do! First of all, your loneliness may be caused by yourself. Your identity with yourself may be confusing things and preventing you to be more forthright in what you prefer as a friend or lover. If you want a woman as a friend and lover then be open with your feeling with women you honestly feel you can discuss this with! The same with a guy! You can still have male friends and be bi! If your shy, then talk to someone who is close to you and share your feelings because that may be the way to network and meet others. I am a married male who is transgendered. I love wearing feminine clothes and I have breasts but I am not gay nor am I a Transsexual. I want a woman other than my wife to be my girlfriend (Not Lover per se) so I have support and a friend to enjoy this time in my life! It is hard but it is mainly up to you to generate some action so you may have that void filled! Good Luck and I will be sending you positive vibes so you can be happy too!
2007-12-13 08:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd get rid of him hunni! You're obviously not happy, crying everyday, he treats you like a dog, he ain't worth your time. He's controlling what you do, how much you see your friends, we all need our space and he isn't giving you any. He doesn't respect you by the names he calls you and the way he is towards you. Don't worry about what he'd do to himself if you left him because they would be selfish and cowardly acts, and that's how he's acting right now - selfish. He isn't thinking about you or your needs and he isn't trying to make things better or happier like they used to be. The best thing you can do is to let him go. Move on and find someone new. Respect yourself and your happiness because he isn't worth your time! Unfortunately we have to go through a few bad guys until we meet the right one but he definitely isn't the love of your life, a year of your memories with him are all bad, that's more than 50% of the relationship. Find someone better (: good luck!
2016-05-23 10:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these feelings may be common for those trying to figure it out. If you look at girls more than guys, then maybe you are straight. Talk to some girls and ask them out. Just get to know them and hold back on the romance until you are certain one way or the other.
2007-12-13 08:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really feel for you cos i'm the same its such a shame being lonely sucks you have to make the most out of going out with your mates and getting yourself out there so there is the opportunity to meet people maybe you should try to talk to this guy a bit more even if it is on msn just keep your options open if he really liked you chances are he'd try to speak to you more oftern.
best of luck
2007-12-13 08:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should just talk and get to like him and see what hes interested in. then maybe eventually confess ur feelings to him. i think now is the perfect time of year for that. but dont get so friendly that u put him under the impression that u just wanna b friends, and that if u ever have a relationship it will ruin ur friendship.
2007-12-13 08:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Carly, people may be suspicious of you because you aren't being yourself. I'm not sure of your age, or circumstances, but always love yourself for who you are and let others see that wonderful person too! HUGS from straight listener!
2007-12-13 08:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
Where do you live?
Is there a LGBT drop in center where you live?
Is there a LGBT community in your city/town/suburb?
All these questions would make answering the original question a lot easier....more info plzzz
2007-12-13 08:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by lil_sister58 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm..interesting however as long as you believe & love yourself don't worry about being lonely...
Its doesn't matter what is your sex preferrence as long as your comfortable with the person with.
If you have feelings for this guy open up to him, and see how it goes.
2007-12-13 08:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make friends and maybe a friendship might be something more. If you dwell on being single you will never find anybody. Trust me, the minute you stop looking you will find someone.
2007-12-13 08:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
okay well first off i have NOTHING against gay/bi people but i think you should stick to dating guys for your own sake because you will be treated differently in society if you date people of the same gender.and as for the guy, just open up to him. whatve you got to lose? as nike says, JUST DO IT!
lol good luck! xoxo
2007-12-13 08:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kris2007 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋