I've been waiting and I'm insecure that sometimes guys don't want to be brave enough to come and talk to me. Why is it so difficult to meet people that are true.
2007-12-13 07:17:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I'm actually 19. I know many people think i'm 17 because of my screen name but its just a number.
2007-12-13 07:53:18 · update #1
only you can make your wishes come true.
2007-12-13 07:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are a few issues here:
#1 - how are you defining "God?" Why should such a being give you a soul mate? Isn't it ultimately your responsibility to pursue what you want? Remember, in this world you still have to act for yourself. That's why you have free will.
#2 - how are you defining "soul-mate?" The fact is, people change all the time, and therefore the ideal person for them changes all the time as well. maybe instead of looking for someone "perfect" you should start by just taking another person for what he is. You have no obligation to anyone but yourself, so if you decide he's not worth your time, just break it off. You can learn something about yourself and what you need from each relationship.
#3 - How come you get to be "insecure" and just wait for the guys? Why do you think they need to be the brave ones? A person is always going to have an easier time talking to someone who is outgoing and laid-back.
This doesn't mean you have to pretend to be outgoing when you're not. I'm just saying that if you don't place so much importance on it all -- if you don't make it out like it's so important -- you'll feel more free to be yourself. When you're being yourself, then guys will have an easier time of knowing what you're like and whether they really want to talk to you. Those who see the genuine you and are attracted to that are ultimately more likely to be "soul-mate" material.
2007-12-13 07:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sir N. Neti 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dog people usually say "heart dog"... same feelings without the romantic implications of soulmate. It's hard to describe a close relationship with a dog without someone calling it creepy, but anyone who's loved a dog knows what I mean. I love dogs. I've loved every dog I've had, and I've enjoyed the training and the walks and just plain living with them, like any other pet. Two years ago, I saw a little runty puppy watching me from inside a chicken coop and whisked him home. That dog isn't just another pet. He gave my all his heart, and it's impossible not to get emotionally close to a dog like that. We keep an eye on each other. He tries his hardest to be what I ask to be. Never in my life have I owned a dog so incredibly aware all the tiny things I do. Nothing held much interest for him but what I was doing and what I might do, and no other human could compare. By getting a one-person dog, I turned into a one-dog person.
2016-05-23 10:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by desirae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will give you what you desire but not until everything is in order. You are his precious child and he's not going to just give you anyone. You have to be in the right frame of mind too. Are there things that you need to work on? You said that you are feeling insecure. Why is that? While you are waiting for your soul mate start working on yourself first. Become the best person you can be. Start enjoying your own company, get comfortable knowing your likes and dislikes. Start loving and taking care of yourself. Treat yourself how you want others to treat you. People attract what and who they think there are to themselves. So if you want to attract a really nice, confident, and Godly man. You have to be those things too. Best wishes
2007-12-13 07:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by danielle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a try. While you're waiting, get out of the house, mingle with others, involve yourself in activities you enjoy, attend lectures of interest. Then you will be more likely to meet the kind of guy you are compatible with (and you will have a shared interest to break the ice). Also, have you ever considered being brave enough to go and talk to guys you are interested in? Take control of your own life.
2007-12-13 08:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by OTTO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a will. God will not violate that will. If you ask, and have 100% faith, He will make your wish come true if it is Good for you and in His Good time. I gotta a feeling that by using the word, "insecure" indicates a less than perfect faith attitude.
2007-12-13 09:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by hmmmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of this is truly about timing in life...your best bet, I think is to make the most of your own life and your won self. Do things that are important to you and make you happy. Being happy to be with yourself is so important--and it really does attract like-minded people your way. Being miserable, if you are, I don;t know, sends out signals to people to stay away. Maybe that is what's happening here, who knows? Good luck to you--it will be OK in the end...I didn't meet my husband til I was thirty--but I had a heck of a good time looking for him! :)
2007-12-13 07:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Stacies Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is what God has in store for you then yes. But how old are you? If i am guessing right i think its safe to say that you have plenty of time to find your soulmate and you should be focusing on other things. The more you think about it the mare paranoid you will become. If you want to e-mail me i can help you further on this issue.
2007-12-13 07:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but asking once then getting on with life is not the way to talk to God. In Daily prayer with the almighty the request should be brought to His attention again, and again. He will answer you but be prepared for His answer, not what you think His answer should be.
You will get what you ask for. As for a mate? He will give to you what He deems best for you.
2007-12-13 07:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by the old dog 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
God always gives you what you need, not necessarily what you want. Don't worry, I am sure you will meet a guy when the time is right. In the meantime, enjoy what you've already got in your life and make the most of it. Good luck.
2007-12-13 07:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Nige 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those ultra-conservative people who think that the answer to that question is yes, :d.
I think that if I'm doing what I'm supposed to according to God's word, and waiting for his timing and truly desiring his will for my life, he'll send the guy into my life who will help me to best achieve that desire.
The waiting gets kind of hard though... I guess that's where God teaches us patience.
2007-12-13 07:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by Auge 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋