There's this guy I see at my work place... whenever I see him I get this strong urge to knock his face... don't know why.. I don't even know the bugger
2007-12-13 06:43:10 · 14 answers · asked by 7atem 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I could just 'dislike' someone for no reason, but I won't go as far as hating them for no apparent reason
2007-12-13 06:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always a reason. A sign of maturity is getting at **why** you dislike someone. I'm not calling you "immature" - I'm saying this is part of knowing yourself, knowing why you feel this way. Most likely it's because something in the way he looks or acts reminds you of someone you've grown to dislike.
Once you figure this out you can make an effort to actually get to know the guy, maybe he's not who you think.
2007-12-13 14:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU may very well have known him or "her" from another era. If you are spiritual, you will find that some folk that we like "tremendously" or have great "disdain" for, are from situations in other "lifetimes" with that person. This may be "why" you feel that way about this person.
Don't ignore the fact that YOU may not have liked that person back then. The person may have been an "enemy," or been either "afraid of you." They may have been desirous of being "your friend." You must look at this from different angles. You may not be disappointed. I wish you well. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-12-13 14:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been known to look at someone and he just looked so mean and nasty that you could tell he would be the biggest jerk. Then I got to know him and he was probably the nicest person you would ever meet.
Start up a conversation with the guy....He might turn out to be your best friend.
2007-12-13 14:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by MyMxboys is an *old bag too* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom wanted me to meet her new boyfriend. He walked in a said "Hello" as nice as can be a shook my hand. But I had a weird feeling about him and didn't like him. Every other man she had me meet... I was okay with. This guy... from the moment I met him... there was something I didn't like. Two years later she is telling me "You were right" and she is suffering through an abusive relationship (her choice)
2007-12-13 14:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lilliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is an awfully strong word. I have taken a immediate disliking to a person.
2007-12-13 14:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Etheria ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have not but if I did I would befriend that person until I don't hate them for no reason.
2007-12-13 15:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by dmsemerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I always end up feeling bad though.
2007-12-13 14:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly yeah...
There are just some people I can look at, and know I won't like them....!
I don't know why or how I do it, but it happens, it's unintentional.
2007-12-13 14:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly,
the only people i can say i have ever truly hated,
are those convicted
or waiting to be convicted
for child abuse charges
2007-12-13 14:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋