I am 15 years old. I live in and Texas where the laws are diffrent from most states. I was taking advantage of sexually by a 18 year old guy while I was under the influence of marijuana. It was my first time to try it so I was unaware of how my body would respond. ( I was totally out of it) It has been a little over a month and I have kept it to my self because it was my fault for smoking weed in the first place and ecspecially around him...even though I never would suspect him to do that. (he had the substance in his system too) Im afraid I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do because it was my fault.my parents aren't extremly strict but are when it comes to guys. So I'm not exactly sure what to do. I know I was dumb for doing that but I need help.
2007-12-13 06:42:50 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney. =) 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
This has really taken a toll on me
2007-12-13 06:49:19 · update #1
go to the police
2007-12-13 06:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by peter s 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if you were stoned or unconscious, he had no right to have sex with you without your permission. Not to mention, I would assume what he did was statutory rape, based on your respective ages.
Talk to your parents. Tell them the whole truth and let things fall where they may. If he did this to you, I am sure he has done it to another girl also.
It will be painful and uncomfortable for a while, but you will end up better off in the long run.
2007-12-13 06:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by wcowell2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. If they're good, understanding people they won't care a lick about the marijuana thing. They're more concerned with your well-being, getting the proper attention you need and getting someone like that in jail. Not telling anyone only lets him do it to someone else if he chooses to. It won't be easy to come forward, but it will be the best thing in the end. Stay strong!
2007-12-13 06:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Magnus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was your fault for trying pot>But it's his fault for raping you>Best start with you family get a Preg= test then go to the police with your parents>Don't wait to long on the test>Good luck Sorry > hard way to learn a big lesson>
2007-12-13 06:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go to the police or at the very least call a rape crisis center. It is not your fault for what happened he took advantage of you.
The toll free number:
1.800.656.HOPE
2007-12-13 06:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by doug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be a family counseling agency in your area that deals with rape victims. Seek them out and get in to therapy. You will need to file a police report as well, but your rape counselor will go through that process with you. You've been through a very traumatic experience and NONE of it was your fault. That's a common misconception of rape victims. Please take care of yourself. Good luck. 2D
2007-12-13 09:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a rape crisis number in your area. You need to report it to the police as well and get this jerk behind bars where he belongs. Don't be afraid to tell your parents. You should see about counseling as well you will have scars from this for a long time please go get help. Don't let this happen to another female.
2007-12-13 06:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were not at fault for anything. He is a adult and should go to jail for Rape. You have to make up your mind about the pregnancy.
You should report that rapist,let him go to prison and see what it feels like to get raped, and you should definitely post his name, hometown, and picture on the Internet with your question.
It would also be cool to post his address and phone # also!
2007-12-13 06:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by katrinas_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a planned parenthood or somewhere and discuss your options about the rape. They have counselors there. If you do press charges, a long court battle will ensue, but that guy needs to pay. It's really up to you but good luck.
2007-12-13 06:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a beginning of a new way of life for you, this could be happening all your life, drugs suck now you know why.
Go to the police, I am not sure what they can do for you it's been a while and the evidence is stale, or not fresh.
Good luck.
2007-12-13 06:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it, then get an abortion. If you were 17-18 I might say differently, but at 15 a child will ruin your life.
If you have an aggressive male in your family you could always tell that person, they could dispose what I call "true" justice.
2007-12-13 06:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋