1. my childs father want's to get married but I am just scared to get married because he might be with a another woman ?
2 He loves me so much that he want's to have 3 more kids with me ? What to do
2007-12-13 05:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by you fine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is what you make it. Trust is huge so if you got these feeling's about another woman then tell him it's over do this only if you have solid proof. Another thing do you want four kids really that is alot of stress and responsibility to put on you I think one child is hard enough this day age and the cost of raising them if he is like a Dr. or a professional I guess you can afford it. If he is just a average guy then do not have anymore kids until you marry and you know that he is being faithful to you.
Communication and honesty is vitally important in any relationship therefore before you spend anymore time on this relationship I think you need to have some serious discussions with him.
Really if you do not trust him how could you even think about marrying him?.
2007-12-13 06:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having second thoughts about marriage. Please dont do it. It would come back and haunt you during your good and bad times and for marriage, you need to be prepare because you have to deal/put up with it. Why would you marry him if you think or assume he's cheating. Save yourself the heartache and put off the married until your mind is ready. Its just not about the heart.
I find that a lot of people think that after marriage / or if they get married, its all a bunch of roses. Its not. Its the same thing as being in a relationship. Other than that, its finacial situations. Sharing etc. When you get in an argument, you have to end up sleeping in the same bed or room. Just think about the life change or ask any off your friends that have been or is married questions and diffiently check out that situation with him and having another lover.
I wish you all the best on you choice. All the best to you and your family.
2007-12-13 06:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be married to him? If yes then it's time to find out if he is with another woman. If you don't then don't worry about it. Secondly about the 3 more kids, do you want 3 more kids? Decide what you want first and then talk to him. If you don't want more kids then tell him this NOW. If he says he's not with another woman and want to be with you make it clear that you will not tolerate being cheated on.
Good Luck.
2007-12-13 06:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by tetlitea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better find out what his deal is. I met a guy one that I dated for a while then out of the blue he wanted to marry me and found out he was actually broke and half homeless with 2 kids with different women to support. Since I make alot of money he wanted for ME to pay child support which automatically I would have to pay being his wife. I'm kindda scared to marry too..at least after that
2007-12-13 06:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like he might be with another woman, you better find out ASAP, if he is, i recommend you stay as far away from him as you can, dont marry him and by God, dont have more children, if thats the case he only wants to have you tied down with a bunch of kids so you can take his infidelity.
good luck
2007-12-13 05:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, marriage is still same, life. If you think that he night be with another, I would wait. Wait on having more kids also, he needs to commit or walk away and let you live and love.
2007-12-13 05:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go ruin the other girls life, let them have 3 more kids. but marriage is good these days we just got a new clock. lmao lol lol
2007-12-13 06:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister. if you love him play because god can do every thing
2007-12-13 05:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by undertheconopyofgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋