2007-12-13 05:36:41 · 10 answers · asked by Rachael 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Time..
Thats all that helped me. Just time and someone to talk to if/when its needed.
2007-12-13 05:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ever really get over it. You just move on- we have no choice in life but to continue to look forward to the future. The best thing to do is grieve the loss and make some type of ceremony or dedication to the lost baby and you can carry the baby forever in your heart. Time heals the wounds, and future children will help fill in the void if you are able to have them. Miscarriage is very common and affects most women at least once in their lives... You are not alone and your pain is very real. Allow yourself time to heal and then, with guidance of your doctor, try again. I wish you the best and I am very sorry. You may try becoming a member of babyfit.com it's free and they have a great place for miscarriage support.
2007-12-13 13:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by theotherone19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this would be hard but I think about one thing, if there is something wrong with the baby, nature has a way of taking care of things.
Think what if the child had been born and within a few days the child died because the child couldn't survive in this world or even if you were not able to carry the child the full term and to even put your life in danger.
2007-12-13 13:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by perk472002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your lost
I don't think you actually get over it but with time it get easier
If you had known the b'day you will always remember today would have been my baby b'd
I had 3 miscariages eventhoug now that I am pregnant (33 wks) it still hurt when I think about them but the pain has lessen
You should mourn your baby and pray for it, don't let people make you feel bad about mourning it because if you don't take your time to mourn you will never feel better
Good luck & you will be in my prayers
2007-12-13 14:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take it one day at a time, and don't hold in your feelings. I know that time is the best remedy but for me it seems like time is working against me. I had a miscarriage the about a year ago now and I'm still not completely over it, not sure I ever will be.
2007-12-13 13:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time. its the only thing that will ease the pain.
mourn your baby the way you see fit. take your time to heal and reflect on what happened. your baby will always be special to you.
when you feel up to trying again, do it. miscarrages happen, but most women can go on to have a successful pregnancy after a loss.
good luck and God bless.
2007-12-13 13:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you never really get over it but you do move on. I still think "What if..." but time is definitely the best healer. Try to find someone you can talk to about it..talking about it helps get it out and off your chest.
2007-12-13 14:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Elo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had 2 m/c and it just took time to get over it and to have another baby.
2007-12-13 20:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. I miscarried in March. I'm still not sure I'm over it. Good luck and I'll pray for you.
2007-12-13 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~kk~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...The baby is in Heaven,..thats got be the greatest way to look at it..that is if you believe in God...
2007-12-13 14:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Lucy*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋