his carrier and watch me. Is this a problem? Do you think that he will start to like his carrier better then his crib? It does take him a long time to put him down for a nap. Also he doesn't nap so often. usually he just takes 2 45 min naps a day but is really cranky and wo't sleep more then that. Help!
2007-12-13 02:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by smiles 4 u 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
It may be that he feels more secure in the carrier. As a new mom, you may be feeling a little anxious when you hold him and he will sense that. With time and practice, you will be more confident holding him and he will want to be on the go with you.
To help him sleep more in the day time, you might try gently massaging him and talking or singing to him in a low voice. If he will let you rock him (gently!) in a rocker, the motion can make babies sleepy. If the rocker doesn't work, holding him in a snuggly or sling on your chest and swaying or walking may work as well. (The goal is to give him a little body warmth and the sound of your heartbeat--these are very comforting.)
Don't worry about making it totally dark or totally quiet. Babies need to learn to sleep with a little ambient noise, so they aren't startled awake by the normal sounds in a household. That said, having a radio or a little slow music playing softly can help lull a cranky baby to relax and drift to sleep.
Try to make the naps at regular times each day. Having a routine will teach his body to expect and accept rest.
If all your tricks still don't work, it might be worth a trip to his doctor or health care provider for a quick check to be sure something else isn't keeping him awake such as an ear infection or tummy trouble. He may not be digesting his milk well and may need a change in diet.
The trick to mothering a new baby is trusting your instincts and paying attention to your baby's moods and rhythms. He will teach you what he needs.
2007-12-13 03:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by smallbizperson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies at this age are soaking up lots of information and learning about their surroundings. Your baby probably just likes watching you and seeing what you are doing rather than being held for too long. I don't think it's any cause for concern right now.
When he naps during the day have you tried putting him in his pram or in his cot instead of the carrier? I;ve found my baby will sleep better if he's in his cot where he has a bit more room to stretch out.
Also make sure he's warm enough / not too hot when he's having his nap. Babies will wake if their temperature gets too high or drops low. Check he doesn't kick off any covers as that could be what's disturbing him.
I found using a relaxation CD was helpful. I used to listen to one when I was pregnant and now I put it on when the baby goes down for a nap. It's quite calming and the baby seems to like it too :)
Good luck!
2007-12-13 02:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dusky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son was the same way, liked being held by me but liked his bouncer more. He would also take naps in his stroller, that's where he preferred to be. My daughter is complete opposite. The only way she will fall asleep and stay asleep is when I am laying on my back and she is face down on my chest or I am wearing a sling.
There is no problem with your son preferring the carrier, it's very cozy and enclosed, probably reminds him of being in your womb while being able to see the world from his own point of view. My son also didn't have trouble transitioning into the crib so I wouldn't be too worried about it. Let the baby be comfortable, as long as he is safe.
2007-12-13 03:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have set a foul precedent, yet there remains desire. Why could you like to hold him all day long and get no longer something achieved. you may enable him experience what if feels desire to no longer get his way. stop picking him up plenty, you have already spoiled him. Now the ideas-set you're taking is whilst he wakes up interior the morning, and at 10 weeks he's no longer attaining out yet so only seem at him, and consult with him. If he starts to cry then stumble on a toy that performs song that could distract him. do no longer %. him up. if the song would not paintings then rub his back or carry his hand. If that would not paintings then depart the room and enable him cry. he will start to decide that his crying won't get him picked up anymore. infant relatively understand what they desire at an early age, yet once you %. him up each time now then you definitely would be picking him up for the the remainder of his existence. only think of roughly it you isn't waiting to pass out, or do something without your infant. Make it stop now or you will quickly have problems whilst it is composed of sleep time as nicely
2016-12-11 03:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that just how he's most comfortable. has he always been like that? i know that they have the tendancy to change the position they like best pretty often. right now my baby only ever wants to sit up straight on my lap. i fnd it odd that he wouldnt want to be carried though. most babies love the opportunity to take a gander at all they can and love being carried about the house. You can check out my fav parenting site parentcenter.com and ask the experts if you cant find the answer. all in all it is probably best to call your pediatrition and ask about it... It never hurts to ask. maybe there is an underlying issue... maybe something hurts?
2007-12-13 03:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Casandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, you do not have a problem. Free hands! Halleluya!
2007-12-13 02:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋