my boyfriend always wants to touch them but i feel uncomfortable and since i wont let him touch them and they look ok for my body but he always teases me about stuffing but i dont i wear a padded bra to fill them out what do i do he always embarasses me
2007-12-13 02:21:18 · 19 answers · asked by *unSURe* 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
he is just a jerk playing mind games on you, saying you stuff them in order to make you think that in order to prove him wrong, you gotta let him touch. Doing anything necessary for a feel I see.
2007-12-13 02:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by hoi1ma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, just have confidence. That is how God made you, be proud, most girls your age will probably be jealous! If you act shy and embarassed then people will tell. Go in there and act yourself. Go to a local department store with someone close (mom, older sister, aunt) and try on a ton of suits and see what you feel most comfortable in and look best in. If you can, go to a nice store such as Nordstroms and they have personal shoppers there with professional experience. Even if you can't get a new suit, deal with what you have and find something cute to cover up with so you are comfortable out of the pool. Be prepared, it sounds like you are young and girls can be mean. Understand that if they say something mean to you (which I hope they won't because you are at a friends house) they are just jealous. That is what girls do. You can just ignore them and find a close friend and stick with her. If they keep it up just tell them that you don't appreciate that and you wouldn't tease them for having small chests. Good luck and enjoy the party!!!
2016-05-23 09:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not even used to having them yet, let alone having someone put their hands all over them. You will get used to both, but make sure he knows it makes you uncomfortable. Hopefully, he is not trying to touch them in front of other people, which is offensive. When you're alone & ready to make out, you may enjoy a little touching. If he can't wait for you to be ready, then find someone else who will respect you.
2007-12-13 02:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Pogo peeps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like it has less to do with your boobs and more about your boyfriends' lack of restraint or respect for you. Do not be ashamed of your body or yourself. If he really is constantly teasing and embarrassing you, find another boyfriend who will treat you much better.
2007-12-13 02:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by carmelcavalier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have an honest relationship tell him how you feel and tell him why you wont let him touch you he needs to make you feel comfortable in order for you to want him to touch them. it's 50 50 and you should be proud of wht you have there are some girls tht are flat or miss a boob do to cancer
2007-12-13 02:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by mama moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't be so ashamed of them. If he didn't like them, he wouldn't touch them all the time. If you are a small framed girl, you would look funny with large tah tahs.....
besides, anymore than a hand full in a waist.
2007-12-13 02:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a bigger size you could try what is being tested out on radio 1 the f cup cookie its been worked out what is needed to make boobs bigger by some japanese bloke just look up F cup cookie and listen to radio 1 on the scott mills show or go to the radio webpage and read up on it
2007-12-13 02:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by andrew p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let him know how you feel, second, guys will always try to touch you thats in their nature, respect yourself.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you
good luck
: )
-GC
2007-12-13 02:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously consider getting a new boyfriend. You should never be made to feel bad by someone that cares about you. Don't put up with it!
2007-12-13 02:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Instain Mother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy with yourself. there will always be something you don't like, but it's not going to change unless you get surgery. your true love will love you with every imperfection you have. if you are not comfortable with someone touching, tho, don't let him. if he's teasing you about your breasts, he's not loving you. he wants poonanni. let him go. he's not about you, but what you can give him. someone that loves you builds you up.
2007-12-13 02:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋