I am 19 and I'm asking because most of the time older guys I mean grampies be giving me the eye and be smiling most of the time they ask for my #, I live in Miami Fl, does all men around the world like younger girls, I mean even though I'm single why would they want me?
2007-12-13 01:29:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
i guess it makes them feel younger... you're probably very attractive :) I guess as long as they aren't creepy towards you, appreciate it.
But, no offense you DO live in god's waiting room, so what do you expect? :)
And yes, men from all over the world like younger women.
2007-12-13 01:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Trout Pout (Lollie) 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've seen it numerous times, where younger women like older men, not just because of money. I worked at a club for 4 years and you wouldn't believe how many of the young 18-28 year old girls/women went home with men that were 35+, and not because they guy bought her drinks all night and got her stumbling drunk. I don't think love and attraction has an age limit, I think it just depends on the two individuals.
2016-05-23 09:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me, I'm in my 40's and I find most women my age who are "available" are either divorced and bitter, have a few kids, a few extra pounds, or all of the above. I'm a single guy in good shape with no attachments or baggage and I'm sorry but I don't want someone who does have attachments and baggage. I am attracted to younger girls for all of those reasons.
Having said all that - I don't approach young girls and offer my # or stare creepily. However if there was a situation where a younger female showed interest I would ask her out, you bet.
2007-12-13 02:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The smiles could just be in admiration of a pretty 19 year old woman. Not all of the 45+ men are after your body. Asking for your phone number is a different kind of attention. I think that type of man craves young women because he is trying to recapture his youth. It backfires on him if he gets into a relationship or marries a young woman. He can't keep up with her and is reminded daily of how dang old and wore out he really has become.
2007-12-13 01:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think men's and women's brains work differently. As soon as I wrote that, I had to slap my forehead and yell, "Duh!". Somehow, when men fantasize, they see themselves with a younger woman and feel younger themselves. From what my women friends say, they don't imagine themselves with younger men, just really great men their own age.
When I was a young woman of 25, I was sitting on a bus in Jerusalem across from an elderly man. He smiled at me a few times, and then said that seeing me and the clothes I was wearing brought back some happy memories. I was wearing a sort of peasant get-up with a red-checked full skirt and a white peasant-style blouse. He said he has a sweetheart back in New York City during the 1940's who dressed like that, and it was nice to think about her. I think there are a lot of older men who are not "perving" on you, just thinking how pretty you are and maybe remembering a girl of their youth.
2007-12-13 03:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Globe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The older man, the ones in show biz especially, with lots of money to throw about, I think come under the catagory of "theres no fool like an old fool" because the young pretty thing is not on his arm for his looks or love, I've often wondered why they seem to be bragging to have these beautiful girls, when they are plainly only with the man for his money, it's sad
2007-12-13 02:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ HOPE ♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My X looked about 24 when he was 44 and young girls hit on him constantly so it is just in the eye of the beholder. Men 45 often are going thru a bit of a slump as they are creeping up on the big 50 so why not check out the young ones just to see if all is still in working order. Just some thoughts.
2007-12-13 01:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by lilabner 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am a former Miami-an, actually North Miami Beach, I know what you mean about the older men eying the younger girls.,
I think it makes them feel good to think about being with someone younger and feeds their ego. Like a trophy or "eye candy"
Edit: Ndnqua, I think it is called "Viagra", instead of hormones LOL
2007-12-13 02:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by slk29406 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some might be going through their second childhood. While women can appreciate a good looking, charming man, younger or older, some men only see beauty in youth. Not all, but some.
2007-12-13 01:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by mydearsie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I myself can look at a younger lady and appreciate her beauty, but am not attracted to her. I appreciate women a bit older than myself, for the experience and wisdom they've accumulated over time. FYI, I'm 40 myself.
So Trout Pout has it wrong, not ALL men want younger women!
2007-12-13 01:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Most guys older thinks that you can make them feel younger, most of them just wan to fool you, don't trust them at all, I am also from Fl and it is disgusting how these older guys act
2007-12-13 02:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋