I'm 12 years old, and my father is cheating on my mother. It's not just some paranoid guess - I know it. Well, my dad hates me and thinks I'm a mistake, and doesn't love/just pushes my mom aside because she doesn't want to have intercourse with him. He embezzled all the money in my bank account and lied about it. If it were for a good cause, I wouldn't be so angry, but all the cash was from academic achievements and have sentimental value, and he's sending all of it to his sluts as Christmas gifts, and gets angry when I ask my money back. I hate my father and don't want to forgive him. I really need to be strong right now, but I don't find it easy. I would include a link to his myspace account where he's trying to seduce 133 different women, but if he finds out he'll belt me. So, any help, please? I can't sleep at night because of him.
2007-12-13 01:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by Sterling 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think maybe you and your mom should leave his sorry a*ss.
And i will tell you this, you will need to forgive one day because if you don't you will always stay angry with your self and everyone around you. Now you don't have to forget what he has done to you and your mom, but in time you will need to forgive him. I'm so sorry you are going through all of this, and your mom.And does your mom know he is cheating on her? Will i wish you all the luck......PRAY ABOUT IT....
2007-12-13 01:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Toni A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can kind of relate, as my father has been cheating on my mum for years, but other than that he's good man he doesn't abuse us or anything. Open up a new bank account, one he does know about and be strong for your mum, if he continues to treat you and your mum badly go to social services and get him sorted out dont feel any pain sadness or regret. Then when your older say 16+ get a job, go to university live a successful life, laugh back in his face and use all the anger and resentment from your father, and turn into something positive, something that will really motivate you to go far.
2007-12-13 09:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by lil miss giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really 12? This is too deep for the average 12 year old.
But if it is true, you and your mother need to get out of there now. Go to a friend or relative's place and change all the bank accounts to remove his name.
2007-12-13 09:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by C>/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and talk to a trusted adult. What your father is doing is wrong. Your mother is also wrong to allow him to take your money and allowing your father to belt you. There are laws against this. Talk to your grandparents, your guidance counselor at school, your preacher or another trusted adult that can intervene on your behalf.
2007-12-13 09:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame your mom for pushing him away... he's cheating... she don't want aids... if I were you, I'd tell her to leave him... it's not fair how he treats you both, and she can get alimony and child support! go on, tell her to leave... and show her his my space, he's a loser...
I would not sleep w/ a man either who was even just messing around online... but, he is doing more than that... certainly!
good luck to you... she needs to leave this idiot... and milk him for every penny... !!!
2007-12-13 09:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry that you have to deal with all of this, i really dont know what to tell you, we all think we have problems and then we read stuff like this, my heart goes out to you and ur mom,
2007-12-13 09:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋