how can i not be a nerd?

Question

im 15, slim but athletic build, know a bit about computers, LOVE computer games, GREAT at athletics and swimming, quite good at sport but ive never played in anything offical, you can call me a liar if u want but it seems when ever someone is watching me kick a football, shoot a hoop i miss .... well if its a crowd, im ok around my friends, (i have no geek friends) im alright looking but i need a haircut, sorta got a afro, ive had around 7 girls like me through my life half of them realy good looking, ive pashed about 4 times, sucked and licked breasts of one girl and i fingered her :) but she was kind of slutty.... ive wanted to bodybuild when im older and move to miami, but first i HAVE to stop with my computer game addiction... also i have realy low self esteen and sometimes im afraid to go to places like town fair if all my good clothes are all in the washbasket.. not a goody 2 shoes but im pretty smart.... help me and rate me NERD outta 10...i think im bout 6/10.. help me plz

i know a fair bit bout music too, im either on the computer or watching channel v1/v2, i like all typed of music rap/punk/soul even emo but real emos r ******* id never slit ma wrists

Answer 1

WOw didn't know emo sterotype met they slit-wrist, lol, their like puss!e goths... lmao!!!

THat aside, buddy, the only thing that makes you a nerd is YOUR lack of confidence, I can't fix that, no amount of advice can show you, nothing you experience well change it. Its about you feeling INTENSE about your PURPOSE here in your life, that can drive you to be confident. Because it gives you a way outside the box of other peoples opinions, WHICH MAKES YOU HELLIFIED COOL!!!!!! Thats how it works, see nerds are insecure because they take things to seriously, jerks are cool, because they don't take anything seriously. See how it works, so a Cool-nerd would be someone who is darn confident about their nerdiness. Who knows when to be serious and when not, its a harder path, but the pay off is much, much bigger, you could always be a jerk for an easy win thou!! Anything less, well is what your doing....

Answer 2

*will develop hand* i think of nerdy ladies are eye-catching. i do no longer understand why. i think of it somewhat is the appropriate mix of intelligence and recognition. For some weird and wonderful reason, a girl donning glasses is much greater valuable. It only approximately provides to her recognition. female below me - i'm going to confirm what i will do to help(until you're joking). I only like the call Mathematician by using fact i prefer to be somewhat solid at math at some point, the appropriate even.