I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but my other best friend has been friends with my boyfriend for two and a half years. I've known them both for about a year and a half. But I've found feelings for my best friend and I don't know if it's wrong to feel this way. I'm not going to act on it because I am in love with my boyfriend but my best friend has a bit of an idea how I feel and I've found myself holding his hand behind my boyfriends back. It feels right in the moment, but I want to remain faithful to both of my friends.
2007-12-13 00:38:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest.
2007-12-13 00:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by daryll39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens, but you have to sit by yourself and decide right now what it is that you want, if you want to stay with your boyfriend then maybe you need to start spending less time with the best friend you give your feelings time to cool down because if not you will end up acting on those feelings and find you and the best friend snicking behind the boyfriend back, if he find out that way it will hurt a lot more than if you just come out and tell him. really think about it be true to your boyfiend, the best friend and most of all to yourself.
2007-12-13 09:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by nice girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, You are making life more difficult that it has to be. 5 times out of 10, If someone is asking this type of question, You already know there is something WRONG involved. I would advise you to don't go stirring up things, in the end everyone will be hurt and you just might be on the losing end of EVERYTHING..
2007-12-13 08:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by NikkiNTexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definatly test the relationship out with the best friends, only because you could end up being more happy with the best friend. But it's your choice, only you can make such a meaningful decision.....good luck.
2007-12-13 08:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would come out and say something and tell your boyfriend how you really feel before they both get hurt. if one of them get hurt you might lose both of them all together do you really want that i woundn't. you should think about it for a while before sayinf anything. but i think its best to be safe than sorry.
2007-12-13 08:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Emily Strange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to have commitment issues. i think maybe until you figure out what it is you want exactly you should not be with either friend. also, if you have these feelings then you obviously don't want to be with your boyfriend too badly(especially if you're thinking about giving into these feelings). don't drag him along. break up with him.
2007-12-13 08:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide which one you want the romantic relationship with. You know, it doesn't HAVE to be exclusive. Tell them both that you want to go out with both of them. Eventually, you'll become exclusive with one just because you like being with them more than the other.
2007-12-13 09:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong but just make sure that you dont do any think with your best friend?
2007-12-13 08:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by sportykitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence or is it?
2007-12-13 08:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself for sure... Who do you like?.... I think is better if you tell your bf about your feeling.... If you not tell him someday he gonna find it out anyway........
2007-12-13 09:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by GoGo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋