Obsessed with blondes?

Question

I seem to have an obsession when it comes to long blonde hair on a woman - I dont know what it is. I dont even think its entirely based on the appearance idk. All of my gfs in the past have been blonde - i'm wondering if this is normal?

Answer 1

Everybody has their preference in what makes them attracted others. Some people have a lot of preferences and some have one that just sticks out maybe that is your one catch. It's not bad you like what you like.

Answer 2

Entirely normal...its not a fetish. I only like guys over 6ft tall with brown hair. I think most of the preferences come down to childhood stuff....familiarity/comfort zones.

Often preferences change over the years...when you meet and fall for someone not of your usual type...and then that gets added in. Eg...I met a guy that did have dark hair but he shaved it off...so I started liking bald guys. If you NEVER meet someone of a different type that attracts...then you may be stuck with the same image preference for your lifetime...hopefully it will be with a wife.

With hair dyes these days.....blonde is usually not real blonde anyway. Very few women keep blonde hair past childhood...it goes mousy, dark or grey and they keep up appearances. So you like fake hair. Maybe with someone you truly love their inner beauty....you wont fall out of love as soon as they get a haircut or dye it red?

Answer 3

its not called a fetish or an obsession...its a preference and there is nothing wrong with it, although it is kind of exclusive to other women, especially when it could be that the only thing separating you from ur dream girl is a bottle of hairdye. I think ur alright but my suggestion would be to no be so closed minded and keep ur eyes peeled for any woman...if we all had long blonde hair it would be a very boring world.

Answer 4

It's a mystery many of us have pondered. I think it's because the hair and skin tone combine to make a 'smooth' overall appearance, and it coordinates nicely with many colors of clothing and other adornments. Many dark-haired people are blond (male) / blonde (female) as children so the perceived youthful attraction may be a factor. I'm even attracted to blondes with short-cropped cuts, so length isn't the only factor for me. And here in the 21st century the global culture is inundated with blondes in advertising and commerce where human sexuality is employed to sell everything from toothpaste to politics to pizza to candy bars to Taco Smell, so we're partially responding to external stimuli. It's hard to tell how much of it is our natural inclination and how much is (M)admen playing with our psyches, tying our sex drive to blonde/blond imagery.

Answer 5

not weird at all, not a fetish either, its a quaility you desire in a woman, its the whole image you are attracted to that comes with blonde haired girls. Normal, not out of the ordinary, could be an obsession but its what you like and you standards need to be met!

Answer 6

I find that blonde hair really brings out the face on girls and makes them look fun and sexy I used to have an obsession with them too we all did didn't we? ; )

Answer 7

are u talking true blondes top to bottom, any one can be a blonde, There's nothing wrong with u thats just your preference

Answer 8

Everyone has certain physical characteristics they are attracted to, but don't forget to expand your tastes, women of all sizes, color of hair, eyes, and height have some sense of beauty.

Answer 9

Yes it is normal, it only means that you have the will to choose things.

Answer 10

depends where you like the long blond hair to be ?? lol