We played football together, we wrestled, i mean was this all to just touch me? We're cool now, but was i justified to get pissed?
2007-12-13 00:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, maybe if you were angry because he'd kept the secret from you a long time, although it doesnt sound like that to me. Just because he's gay doesnt mean he's attracted to you. I mean, you're not attracted to every girl you see are you?
It's understandable that you may have been shocked, particularly if you never suspected anything, and this may have come out as anger. That's fine, as long as you told him you were sorry later and you now accept him for who he is. He's still the same guy you know :)
2007-12-13 00:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by cactustree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened with a female friend of mine...I was a little pissed too...Well, freaked out was more like it...I felt that if we were friends she should have told me up front..I think we are all entitled to our feelings, and I can understand yours...You guys are cool now, so what does it matter if you were pissed then?
2007-12-13 08:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by feelinfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with the above.
I don't think you were wrong to feel angry at first (even though that anger was irrational). You weren't angry at the fact that he was gay, but at the fact that your best friend kept his 'secret' from you. Of course you realise now that coming out is more than just revealing a secret.
2007-12-13 08:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by bonshui 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. A friend is a friend no matter what their sexual orientation happens to be. You think he just wanted to touch you? I doubt it. He probably just now feels comfortable telling you; give the guy a break.
2007-12-13 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were justified in being mad at him. He should have told you he was gay much sooner. I'm glad you are still friends, though.
2007-12-13 10:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by barbwire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you need to pissed off at him. I highly doubt he was just trying to feel up on you.
2007-12-13 08:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by puglyparker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandon, if you must be pissed, be pissed at yourself for not being approachable, thus learning sooner.
2007-12-13 08:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u shouldnt been pissed. but
happy for him trusting you with his truth.
right > ? i mean ur supposidly his bestfriend
so whatever the reason. why be pissed.
accept him for who he his. in watever way
just make it clear to him that ur not really comfortable
with that, if ur not. other wise, no big deal
2007-12-13 09:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are because that's a big secret to keep. He shouldn't betrayed you like that if you were friends. Friends don't keep secrets like that.
2007-12-13 08:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you weren't and you are just another one of those tossers that think every gay guy wants to touch you gosh do you think every girl wants to touch you oh wait yeah probably loser!
2007-12-13 08:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋