I only recently figured out I'm bisexual and I'm 18. I feel more attracted to guys and have only ever been with guys, and I don't see my sexuality affecting my life that differently, but would it make me feel more at ease, if thats the right expression, if I told my friends for example? I'm not sure I'm ready to yet...How do you know?
2007-12-12 22:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by cactustree 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When you find the person that's right for you, you'll know then. If you are monogamous, if that person is a male, then you'll just seem hetero to the world and why would it matter. If that person is female, you will appear lesbian and you'll have to deal with the lifestyle prejudices, but real love is worth fighting to keep. I would be selective on telling friends. A real friend won't judge you , but there might be an adjusting period, depending on how open minded your friend is. Keep in mind, the gay community, unfortunately, may not be really any kinder if you say you're bi. Personally, the majority of humans are bi, anywhere from bi curious to actively bi. Very few of us are 100% gay or 100% straight. It's in our biology, so don't figure, why the closed attitudes? My wife is bi, has dated both and she pretty much doesn't tell most people.She considers whether they're open-minded or not. But we just look like any hetero couple, so it doesn't really matter to tell anyone, because we're monogamous. Some of our gay friends know, none of our straight friends do. So, it's up to you, but just be careful either way.
2007-12-12 23:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a decision for you to make when you are ready. Some will alienate you and others will come out to you as well. I'm still discrete because of my job and social circles. Just do it when you know the time is right.
2007-12-12 22:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but really, who cares?
You'll find that you're the only one.
It doesn't matter if you call yourself bi or lesbian or straight or anything else. What matters is that you're comfortable being yourself. If you want to be bi then go ahead and do it - fall in love with guys and girls.
No one else really cares - just do what feels right.
2007-12-12 22:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by hiddenstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the labels too the fools of this world, go try before you buy. sometimes labels can confuse the mind. i could enjoy either sex as a lover, yet do neither now, i think if you go around as bi to all it may just become a self fore-filling prophecy. good luck on your travels.
2007-12-12 22:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not cross that bridge when you actually get involved with another woman?
2007-12-12 22:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cathryn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT bi-you are greedy...and worse you are NOT bi.You'd have to actually BE with a GIRL there sweety.
2007-12-12 22:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by berlytea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should come out of the closet
2007-12-13 00:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋