2007-12-12 21:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by Nicole N 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Self-confidence is going to directly effect a person's abilities to be sexual. When someone doesn't believe themselves to be attractive, it's going to express itself in their actions, and confidence when pursuing a love life.
This manifests itself in ways that can be viewed in any way the affected want.
Often a lack of self-confidence will show itself as exactly that. Other times it can be viewed as arrogance. It any case the only true way to deal with this is to love and accept that person the way they are. And build them up with affirmation that will allow them to be confident in you, the lover.
So many people deal with this in so many ways, so often that it's easy to pigeon hole them as having low self-esteem. Which is often viewed as a disease and not a result of a lack of love and affirmation.
I personally believe it is also important to show love with affirmation, but with a measure of truth... example: You may not be the most attractive person on the face of the earth, and you don't have to think you are either. You must accept and be confident in the fact that the people you know, see you as you are, and there's nothing wrong with that.
2007-12-12 21:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Musicman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem is a word invented to make you feel bad about yourself. Your mood is always going to go up and down as sure as there will be high tide and low tide. There are going to be times when you feel like being sexual and times that you do not feel like being sexual.
There are so many books and seminars about self esteem and how to attain it, it would make your head spin. If any of these books or seminars worked the word would no longer exist. Though i guess if you want to use that excuse to get out of it. All is fair in sex, love and war.
2007-12-12 21:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it does I think people with high self esteem and believe in themselves more know their self worth and know the right thing to do, but I see people with lower self esteem more willing to give into 'love' and sexual activity from any body who is willing to give it to them, or use them for it, because they think that no one else sees them for the great people they are so the one person who comes along and potentially uses them they will give their life for. So i think self esteem plays a BIG role in love and sexual activity which I think ties into todays teen pregnancy rates, because as cruel as the real world is, teenagers are a bit more abrasive, that teenage girls have little self esteem, resulting in giving it up to whoever notices them first.
2007-12-12 21:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by blue3y3dbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would always feel that what you did for your partner is not enough and tries all ways to please him or her, making that person lose respect for you. U may be seen as desperate and don't have any backbone.
U might develop emotional or physical abuse because you are an easy target. Sexually, you can't perform your best because you are so conscious of your body.
Lack of self- esteem will make you insecure and jealous, but a good amount of self- esteem is a wonderful thing.
2007-12-12 21:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually one that is confident is not fearful to expose them self or worry about what there lover will think of them.. they are also willing to experiment because they don't fear judgment as much as some one with a low self-esteem does..
2007-12-12 21:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In love you will feel sometimes ,when you say Yes you mean No,
In sexual life, you will be always ask "am i good",
" did you enjoy it "
and this not good you should be confident that you give your maximum when you love or doing something, regardless what the others think about.
2007-12-12 21:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Taha* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With "low selfesteem", you will most likely perform even in your 40s' like "you have no clue what to do" person, clumsy and boring . It takes a good loving partner, to stick around even in those moments and if she/he loves the "clumsy", there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-12-12 21:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can make someone not feel sexy. This makes them not want to be very sexually active. I think it depends on the sex of the person you're talking about.
2007-12-12 21:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Buddy_Lee_Hombre_de_accion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to have a lot of self confidence Nicole b4 u can approach someone & have sex with him too.
2007-12-12 21:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a person has low self-esteem, it affects every aspect of that person's life, not just his/her love life and sex life.
2007-12-12 21:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by darrin b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋