she keeps questioning me in nonsensical ways telling me that i have black people in my family or i have black relatives, when ive clearly told her time and time and time again that i dont.
her and some others are going round telling people false things about me and my family, spreading flase rumours that i have black in me...that i have black in my family or that i have mixed races in my family.
ive told her ive not, and that i dont appreciate her saying false things to others about me or my family, but when i do, for some strange reason she laughs at me...
i no shes doing it to taunt me now because she knows what buttons to press and its got beyond joke now.
2007-12-12 19:59:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
the girl is black herself and sent me an invitation for me to add her on myspace, i thought id give her a chance as ive never had black friends.....then she turns out like this
2007-12-12 20:01:19 · update #1
im not racist, but i do resent deeply some girl on myspace going around other people spreading false things about me...telling people im black or i have mixed heritage WHEN I DONT.
if i did i wouldnt need to lie about it.
can somebody tell me what to do here as im wound up, she wont stop & im close to beating her sensless
2007-12-12 20:02:36 · update #2
Miriam's Kiss : its not a big deal - but the fact is i dont, its lies being spread but in another form, and i dont appreciate false things being said about me.
if i was mixed or black or whatever they call it, i wouldnt need to hide it !
so no, i dont no
2007-12-12 20:08:57 · update #3
CRAzy CamBodan kILLER :- so got a problem ?
2007-12-12 20:33:21 · update #4
flip2go: thats because a while back my grandad said he thought he had cherokee ancestry, my mums dad that is, but since research and discovering my ancestry thoroughly through family trees and dna, it was that there was no cherokee or indian heritage.
so that clears that up
2007-12-12 21:22:03 · update #5
zen : NO I DONT ZEN !! YOUR CALLING ME A LIAR TO ARNT YOU.?
IM NOT BEING FUNNY ZEN BUT IF YOUR JUST GONNA IGNIRE FACTS AND SAY I HAVE BLACK IN ME, WHEN I DONT.....DONT BOTHER ANSWERING
2007-12-13 08:22:17 · update #6
some People just get off on hurting others Hun that's the way they are. They have nothing better to do than go around upsetting and causing grief and pain where ever they can.As you say she knows exactly what buttons to press with you and this is why she does it. Telling you to ignore her is not helpful as this is easier said than done, when someone gets to you. Here is hoping you have a better day today, and an even better one tomorrow. Oh and have I wished you a merry Christmas yet. x
2007-12-12 21:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, don't talk to her through texting, email, myspace, or any kind of chat. Talk to her face to face. By confronting her in person, it becomes harder for her to be mean, because she can see your reaction first hand. It also gives less time for her to make up lies to cover her tracks. When you do meet her, be very civil, and don't give her any reason to hate you at all. This way if things do blow up, you know its not your fault. Find out exactly why she feels she has to do what she does, and find out if she won't stop it. Do not sink to her level, and do not get angry about it, at least in front of her. If for some reason that doesn't work, then your best bet would be to ignore her entirely, although there may be some legal action for slandering but I'm not sure. If she doesn't get a rise out of you, you are the one who looks in control of the situation, and she looks crazy. Your real friends will learn to not care about what she says, and if you stop looking at the smack talk, it won't bother you as much. Nobody can make you feel any way that you don't choose to, so if things don't work out with talking to her, don't let her get you down as long as you do what you think is right.
2016-05-23 08:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's your disorder that's lead you to this point of aggravation. She just knows what buttons to push, perhaps. I think we all probably have some black heritage in us. At least, I would like to think so. The irony would be to all those white robe, cone hat wearing anything-but-white haters! Sometimes, being a white folk is embarassing when you realized the racism thet've created...not unlike Hitler. Not just the white people, can't take all the blame of course.If this gal is truly being just a bit*h, eliminate her from your space. But if you value any of her friendship, if that's what it is, then embrace the fact you may have a little black in ya. What's soooo darn awful about that? Nothing, my friend. Because the fact is, you probably do.....ps....For your RUDE comment, you are one messed up dude!!!!!!! You are no longer one of my contacts or on my space. Like they say, no good deed goes UNPUNISHED! I can see why you don't have friends....get some serious help before you destroy yourself any further.
2007-12-13 00:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by zen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, you've mentioned before, that women of color are quite attractive to you...so it isn't surprizing, that you have made contact with a girl of color on myspace...however, ...no matter what color, she is giving you a hard time, and you are falling for it, hook line and sinker...first of all, you need to show what damage she is causing other than ruffling your feathers..next, spreading it to who?..and who cares?..let her spread all she wants to, does the word ignore come to mind? Why would her and others spread things like this? As someone said, if you have to report her, then so be it, but I think that you should just tell her that you don't appreciate her type of chiding, and block her..
2007-12-12 20:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, I still don't understand why having a black person in your family tree is such a big deal to you. Who cares? But whatever.
Just block her and move on with your life. She's just being annoying. You don't have to be her friend ya know?
2007-12-12 20:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Old Soul 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're Natty aren't you?
Your both the same person.
You both bang on all the time about you bloody ethnicity.
Can you not start a sentance without say "I'm French, norweigan and Irish", GOD YOU ARE SO BORING.
GET OVER YOURSELF AND GET A FRIGGING LIFE!!
AND STOP BLOCKING ANYONE THAT DISAGREES WITH YOU, IT JUST SHOWS HOW DUMBLY STUPID YOU ARE.
RACIST F-ING TWAZZOCK.
2007-12-12 23:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is yahoo paying you to post questions and answers?
You are now starting to contradict yourself.
What's ya caper Fantome'?
Quick give me a thumbs down.
A few weeks ago you typed you had indian heritage remember?
ADDED:
you just answered a question referring to girlfriends but you've said about a billion times you've never had a girlfriend!
I'm starting to doubt you're credibility again.
2007-12-12 21:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by flip 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just block her, she's just a stupid little girl with too much time on her hands
2007-12-12 20:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by rock_chick28 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
report her, and block her. if nothing happens then keep reporting her till they see that its a problem
2007-12-12 20:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I HEARD ABout your question before...
2007-12-12 20:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by KRAzy CamBodan kILLER 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋