2007-12-12 17:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do not isolate yourself,we are always a part of the vast reality, in fact we come from that reality,sustained/nurtured every second by it and perhaps return to it after we die! In other words,build up social support system, have positive and meaningful contacts with members of the family,community and social groups,society and environment,social systems and organisations.Secondly,have confidence in yourself that you are unique and special(in some talents,skills),that should be known,cultivated and performed,you do not have to be anybody else,(no model outside you), be that.Thirdly use that speciality of yours for the good of others,especially the needy and the downtrodden. Do not bother to use your skills and unique assets to your self development,if you do so it would fetch only a temporary benefits and always robs of your peace. Be helpful to others,you will definitely be taken care well by some other reality because of your such activities.Ability to love(both give and take) and work are the other hallmarks of a developed personality.
2007-12-12 17:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Thimmappa M.S. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are interested in developing and improving your personality, which is great. I think that constant self-actualization is important. There are several areas of personality you can think about: social interaction, view of self, and emotional intelligence. Here are some questions to think about and decide if you should make some changes for each:
Social interaction: Who are you most comfortable associating with, why? Who are you afraid to talk to, ignore, dislike etc. and why? Could you work towards being more accepting, or perhaps less submissive?
View of self: Are there things goals in your life that you've been procrastinating? Why, are you afraid of failing? When you look in the mirror how do you feel. Look to your past to establish your strengths. What do you like best about yourself, least? Why?
Emotional IQ: This refers to the way you manage emotions and relate with people. Do you automatically blame yourself if someone seems upset? How do you handle yourself when youre angry with someone? Are you too direct, too passive? Think of examples of times when these scenarios turned out well, or badly.
Good luck. There are lots of books on this too!
Dr. max S.
2007-12-12 17:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by therapyphd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have self respect then your personality will automatically develop feel yourself as a perfect person i think that's the best way
2007-12-14 23:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by cool_rajesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up your self confidence. Be optmistic. Be assertive in your speech yet polite. Take everything with a smile.
2007-12-12 22:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy. Think positively. Control negative feelings. Be smart
2007-12-12 17:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by Honey786 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you know about yourself,i.e your +ve & -ve. Then you try to change into all positives[all good qualities]
Then you will be a likable & lovable personality.
2007-12-12 17:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by lalachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be able to laugh at yourself when you fall or make a mistake and dance like no one is watching
2007-12-12 17:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by city girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never compare yourselves in anybody ,think smart for which u have to look smart ,must have etiquettes for the same.
2007-12-12 17:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make friends.Have fun with them.Communicate by speaking how they think.. :) and smile a lot.
2007-12-12 20:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lost my everything.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. thats the best tip anyone can give you.
2007-12-12 17:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋