i was in class today, and i accidnetly told the whoel class that i'm straight! i totally didnt mean to do that. do you think they're judge me, think I only like guys? what wll i do then? i saw disapproving looks. they judged me all right. oh it was an accident,do you think iit is too late or when i ask out my favorite girl i can say "just kidding"?
man what an embarrassment
2007-12-12 16:35:28 · 21 answers · asked by the Bruja is back 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh my! The horror of it! Don't label yourself as straight, it's probably just a phase anyway. God, you'll be planning a legal wedding next if your not careful. Society will assume things about you if you profess to being a breeder. You might get invited to the Prom and be forced into compromising positions with people of the other sex who may want you to do things...like vote for Romney or Huckabee,
See a counselor at the Gay Community Center, call the local UFMCC pastor and seek the Lords help in coming out of this lifestyle choice...
Move to San Fransisco and find a friend of the same flesh and try to reestablish the bonding you obviously didn't get from your opposite gender parent.
Good luck.
2007-12-12 16:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by patrick m 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Your true friends will still accept you though they will probably have lots of questions about what it's like to be straight.
The rest who judge you or make fun of you for liking guys don't matter and just need to grow up.
2007-12-13 00:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by xyxoxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You admitted you were straight? Usually, being bi/gay is what gets you those dirty looks. Well, the sad thing is that you can't take back words. What you may be able to do is say that you were going through a phase and that you do like girls as well.
2007-12-13 00:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that's imaginative..your inning yourself actually.in other words your saying i am normal like every other str8 person around..if they judge you it could be your tone or infliction of your voice when you said it..like maybe you considered being other than str8 as disgusting wrong or whatever your tone could of been..nothing wrong with being str8 or lez/gay whatever you just don't have to blurt it out and if you do becareful how you say them as for the girl well depending on how you said it will determine if she is still interested in you or not..think about it..if you said it with disgust would a potential girlfriend really want to talk you after that? hopefully she will be nice about it try to explain it to her and be careful how you say it next time..perception is reality for many folks..good luck
2007-12-13 02:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love it!!
EDIT: LOVE Patrick's answer below...
I remember in one of my classes (in Social Work), a member of the GLBT community at my University (Greg) came to speak to us about his experiences of discrimination because so many of the social work students have that "noo, people wouldn't do thaaat" blindness to them. He explicitly identified himself as gay... One doofus puts up her hand and asks "so um, have you ever had like feelings towards a girl?" I managed to contain my laugh until he responded with "Um, have you?" That girl's face went red SO fast and she was like "no!" so Greg says "Yea, neither have I". Couldn't contain it - laughed my @$$ off. I love that guy.
2007-12-13 00:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by BeX 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, you took a big step...you shouldn't go back! This is the first day of the rest of your life! Congratulations!
2007-12-13 00:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Katia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you show your pen--is to your fav girl, she'll see youre straight, and tell all her g/f's in the ladies room. And theyll tell EVRYBIDY. Then you got nothing ta worry bout. Your in like Flynn. (Dont ask)
2007-12-13 00:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that it was much easier for you to out yourself as straight than a gay person outing themselves since you won't be murdered for being straight like Matthew Shepard, Sean Kennedy, or Michael Sandy were for being gay.
2007-12-13 01:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Who really cares who you like? As long as you are both consenting adults your sexual preference should be just that...YOURS. Enjoy your life to the fullest, it is not a dress rehearsal.
2007-12-13 00:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by sindy0719 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
love it
your strait
hey me too
we have so much in common
luv yu girlâ¥
-NIKKIâ¥
ps
brush it off it is nothing
but how did it start
i have done way more embarressing thing
like i said
love it
your STRAIT
wooo hoooo
2007-12-13 00:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by NIKKI☮ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋