I HAVENT TOLD ANYONE AND I REALLY DDONT NO WHAT TO DO, I FEEL LIKE DYING BUT I AM HAPPY FOR GIVING LIFE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET HELP OR TELL MY PARENTS ABOUT ANY THING OR TELL THE FATHEER H WHO I JUST STARTED GOING OUT WITH AND WENT TO A SLEEP OVER AT HIS FRIENDS WITH TONS OF OTHER PEOPLE AND I HATE HIM NOW BECUASE I WAS LIKE NOT REALLY AWAKE AND AKLJRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR ok i am calmer now, but i dont know how to deal with this please i no that i might sound crazy but if this happened to you you might feel the same, please and thank you so much for any help.
2007-12-12 16:02:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
So are you saying he raped you? If so, call the cops! If you never consented, even if you were intoxicated, it is against the law! But if you consented, even if you were intoxicated, you can't do anything. Tell your parents. They will help you get through this.
2007-12-13 07:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The way I see it is that you NEED your parents.. tell them they love you and even if it's hard they will be there for you and as far as the bf have a talk with your parents and tell them everything how it really happened (even if you were drinking or whatever)..they will try to deal with it the best way ... You are only 16 and need their guidance no matter if you had done it 100% awake....YOUR parents have lived longer than you and should be able to help you.... they might not be happy but they'll be even sadder if they knew through someone else...Just my opinion... Best of Luck, God Bless.... P.S. Don't listen to anything NEGATIVE... The cup is still half full....It might be hard but it's not the end of the world...although it might seem like that.. it's really not ...
2007-12-12 17:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by angie82 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that this happened to you. Anyone would feel the same way in your situation. What you need to do is practice for the rest of the night telling. Then you need to go and tell your parents and explain to them. Your parents need to know. You need to go to a doctor and get prenatal care etc. Its important. Tell your parents first then you can tell the father later. Your parents can help you with it. If you were not really awake then I do not think it was right of him to have sex with you. But tell your parents and then go to the doctor for care. I hope everything turns out ok.
2007-12-12 16:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your parents...I was 16 when I first got pregnant by some loser boyfriend. When I told my parents they were upset but there for me and any decision that I made. The loser boyfriend that I had told me to get an abortion and he would stay with me or keep the baby and lose him.....well I kicked that jerk to the curb. Well after my son was born he died and this loser guy couldn't be any happier. Just remember that you have a life inside of you and you need to sit down and talk it out. You'll be fine:)
Also, dont listen to stupid people that tell you to abort. They don't have a HEART.... They are here because their parents didn't abort them....
2007-12-12 16:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is so very important that you go to your parents now. I know you are scared. I have been in your shoes, and it is a terrible place to be. Please trust me, the longer you wait, the harder it will be. I wasn't brave enough to tell my parents. I had my older brother tell my mom. I know that was the chicken way out, but I couldn't look her in the eye and tell her myself. You have some very important decisions to make, and you shouldn't have to do that on your own. Just stay strong. I know that's easier said than done, but you can do it. I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-12-12 16:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by a TRUE American 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your parents as soon as possible. You are going to need their emotional support. You also will need prenatal care as soon as you can get it. Don't ask your mother how she would feel if you were pregnant. If you do that, it is hypothetical and of course she is going to tell you she wouldn't be pleased. If you are close to your mother and she knows you are serious and that it is a reality, you will get a different response. I am a mother of three adult daughters and a grandmother. Good luck!
2007-12-12 17:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by sparklerblu2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just calm down. Tell a friend you really trust and you two can go to a women's clinic where ever you live. And get counseling they can help a lot with dealing with this and telling your parents.
2007-12-12 16:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to start by telling someone you trust like a good friend or an aunt or someone. It will get easier the more it sinks in that you are pregnant. You definitley need to tell the baby's dad!
2007-12-12 16:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica.RIP.CHAD! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh God, I'm not that good at giving advise but I hope everything turns out okay for you. Listen to the other answerers, I know this isn't really helping you I just wanted to wish you luck.
2007-12-12 16:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a counsler or tell your parents. Stay calm and beleive. There is always abortion but.. I do not know how you feel about that :(
General Message to all these ignorant answers: Give this girl a break so she made a huge mistake. You would not want smart a*s answers if you were in this situation. Be nice and give her some support.
2007-12-12 16:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Annabelle G 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋