2007-12-12 15:19:58 · 33 answers · asked by sallykinsredd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's being a biatch.
"Thank you for the Christmas card. I thought it was very thoughtful of you. "
That should be your reply.
Show her that you received it and that you thought it was nice.
Leave it at that. She's probably wanting to get drama out of this.
2007-12-12 15:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you're ex still talks about you like you were good friends, even after the break-up and she though it would be a nice gesture. Maybe she was going through his address book and decided to send cards to everyone there. Why not call to thank her and ask?
2007-12-12 15:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You were probably on his friends list in his address book! Meaning to send you a joyous greeting from both of them, she thinks of you as a family friend! (If you think she's trying to be hateful,call with a cheerful Merry Christmas, thanks for the card, and be sure to wish your ex a Merry Christmas personally on the phone,
without any farther chat! If the card was meant to upset you, be aware that she will be
seething for weeks!)
2007-12-12 15:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by V B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha i know how you feel. my ex's ex girlfriend ( at the time) sent me a message on myspace once. this is when i hadnt talked to him in a yr, and have never met her. anyways i was like wtf how does she even know me haha anywasy i was like wtf and at first i was like she is just trying to be a *****. but then i was like maybe she was really just trying to be nice. i still thought it was weird though lol. but i got over it. i mean i dont really care now cuz we are back together haha...maybe i should send her a message ;) haha jk anyways im blabbing now. what i am trying to say is the natural reaction for most girls( deopending on the circumstances) is to think that she is trying to be a b-word but then you cant just assume things so, either you think on the bright side hoping she is just trying to be nice and tell her thank you, you let it go, or you talk to her a ask...i dont see the harm in that. anyways thats pretty much all you can do. but i wouldnt just assume that she is just trying to be mean..unless you have reason to think so. i think that you should say thank you that way if she is being nice then its okay, and if she is being mean then it will make her mad it didnt bother you haha. anyways good luck! =)
2007-12-12 15:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u ask me i think shes just trying to be friendly and meet you or something oooorrrr she could be trying 2 make u jelous and if she sees its working then shell keep on doing it soo i would say dont act jelous and send them 1 to of u and ur boyfriend see what they say haha ;)
2007-12-12 15:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
homegirl has some unresolved jealousy issues & you're probably prettier . So let her send her stupid cards. Send her one back...Only go to Hallmark & get a REALLY EXPENSIVE one...you know she'll look at the back!!!!
2007-12-12 15:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by 5150 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's just one of those people who send cards to all of their friends, acquaintance, dentists, back managers, people who deliver groceries, etc. And since she's now married to your ex, she's added people he knows to her list, or maybe she knows you and thinks your a nice person. Personally i don't see any reason to assume the worst.
2007-12-12 15:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by fray 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She wants to remain on friendly terms
2007-12-12 15:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is strange unless you still keep in contact with them, the thought and gesture is nice! There are bigger things in life to deal with dont fret! take care
2007-12-12 15:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by simply sarah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not sure what your relationship is now with your ex boyfriend or who his wife is......was she a friend of yours before?...if u dont have a good relationship/friendship with your ex boyfriend and you wern't friends with his wife....then ...that's a good question only SHE can answer*~
2007-12-12 15:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋