We both have had many ups and downs but somehow we always pull through them.. we've been through the arguments.. lies.. betrayl and we feel our love is much stronger now and has grown more than ever.. we also have a baby on the way (jan 27th)... he always reminds me he knows what he wants in life thats why he always stuck by me... and the same goes for me! I have mentioned to him before Im a little terriffied of marriage because my parents seperated countless times and ive seen so much pain they went through and always complained.. (however they were pressured/forced to marry) but i realize maybe i shouldnt have said i was terrified because im wondering maybe he feels i dont wanna marry him now... but i do! He has thrown hints at me like.. "So you dont wanna get married?" or... "i know what i want".... I really dont know how to tell him i do wanna marry him! help!
2007-12-12 15:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by jessha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him you Love him very much and you couldn't imagine your life without him. Then just tell him, "I think we should get Married, What do you think?" You've covered all bases, and his answer will let you both know for sure where things are going. Good Luck w/ your Baby !!
2007-12-12 15:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too youthful, you should concentration extra on graduating intense college and going to college (in case you're making plans to). You the two additionally prefer a mushy activity with a respectable volume of income which will financially help the the two one among you. And it fairly is a nasty theory in case you will marry your boyfriend to easily get away out of your grandmother. For a marriage to thrive, it takes extra advantageous than in simple terms love. It takes have confidence and good communication besides, if those are lacking, the marriage won't artwork out. genuine love frequently occurs after your teen years besides. So i would not rush into something. in case you the two fairly love one yet another you the two might wait till you the two are a minimum of carried out with all your training. And besides, in case you're youthful than 18 years of age you like a discern or a criminal father or mom's permission to get married.
2016-11-03 02:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by pontonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having a baby, and you are not married..... Clearly you want to get married but you will just be seperated. You have been through ARGUMENTS, LIES, BETRAYAL..... You sound very young and getting married sounds like flirting to you. But if you really want to just listen to your own yearnings and follow them.
2007-12-12 15:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it cracks me up to hear people say we are not ready to get married, we have talked about getting married (i really don't know how to tell him i do wanna marry him) ( we have been through the arguments ..lies.. betrayal???)etc.
and here they are not committed to each other and yet there they are popping out a baby.... do you think that is a life time commitment? you will be tied to the other parent of that baby for the rest of your child's life... but you are "thinking abut getting married"
i find that strange as hell !!
2007-12-12 15:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't shy. Be open to him, don't be afraid whatever will be his reaction to you. Whether you like my suggestions or not, for me, this is only the best remedy. Just tell him all what you want to say, but be sure, he is on the right attitude to tell him.
Good Luck!
2007-12-12 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to deal with your issues and become comfortable with yourself before you make a big step like this.
Good luck. I know you can do it.
2007-12-12 15:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just tell him that you would like it very much if you got married?
2007-12-12 15:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he wants to do in the future. and if he says marriage agree with him and say something like that sounds nice.
2007-12-12 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound too immature to get married! and too young to be having a baby.
2007-12-12 15:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋