at first I thought it was weired. Then he told me another guy could join us if i wanted. I'm scared that he could have a crush on my brother or a couple of his friends. What should I do?
2007-12-12 14:17:59 · 18 answers · asked by momma 2 Sydney 9-8-09 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
He is a Virgin and i never had sex with him yet. We just started dating a couple of weeks ago.
2007-12-12 14:22:19 · update #1
He's just a boyfriend, at least you have time to think this over. If you aint comfortable with 2 guys tell him no. Bi just means you like both sexes and it doesn't give him the right to cheat, unless of course you want to be there.
2007-12-12 14:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a question...if he is a virgin, then how does he
1. know he is bi....I know, you just know, that is not how I mean. How does he really know if he hasn't experienced any form of comparison,
2, How does he know you would be interested in a 3 some?
3. If he is a virgin.....ahhhh how does the question of a 3 some even enter the equation, seems to me he would want to try to find out some things on his own before he started sharing?
4. Ask him if he has a crush on your brother.
2007-12-12 14:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by poe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but in my opinion I would never date a bisexual guy.. It just seems gross to me (unnatrual).. And I would only want the two of us to have sex, no one else included ! The fact that he would bring up the idea of another guy joining would be a red flag for me to get out asap ! He could end up cheating on you.. Maybe he is unsure about his sexuality..
Good Luck
:)
2007-12-12 14:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird. my friend at work is dating a bi guy and she tells me everything. he likes to play with her toys and even asked if she could reach around to his back door. she is starting to get freaked out. i think it's only for the open minded. how would you feel if you saw your man blowing some other guy. some might not be able to handle it.
2007-12-13 01:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I hope he doesn't want your brother to join in because that would be incest
as far as him being bi if it is an issue with you it's not fair to either one of you to stay in the relationship with eachother... you should break up with him so he can find a woman who will accept him for who he is.
2007-12-12 14:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as its not your brother he has a crush on I say do whatever makes you feel comfortable if you love your boyfriend a lot and you are ok with his choice then by all means stay with him it is honestly your choice and only your choice to stay with him or let him go good luck....
2007-12-12 14:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by jk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested at once. More importantly, have HIM get tested and show you the results. I would NOT just take his word for it.
Dump him if you must. It's early in the game.
2007-12-12 19:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go the other way - away from him.
If you're not into this, and I gather from your question that you're not, then this is just going to create problems for you. Both emotional and possibly even physical.
2007-12-12 14:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by c d 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hire a bodyguard and run for shelter!
2007-12-12 14:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Crowley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wierd...idk i wouldnt it would be the same as a straight guy saying another girl could come
2007-12-12 14:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋