I really hate my husband right now. He called me fat! Any ideas on how to get even?

Question

For the most part, I really don't want to try to understand him right now. I would prefer to pop him in the mouth. But, that would be socially unacceptable.

Hey...thanks guys. I just did a little internet shopping. HaHaHaHa......You know, fat girl clothes cost just a tad bit more than skinny girl clothes. LOL. Ahhh....revenge is so.....sweet.

Answer 1

Do you genuinely hate your husband? Or are you just upset with him? Trying to get revenge will only escalate an antagonistic cycle and lead to more hurtful behavior. I'm not suggesting you should let his actions go without acknowledging them; you need to let him know what he said was hurtful and inappropriate, but at the same time, don't give him reason to believe that he can control you by calling you names.

I would say you should tell him how saying things like that makes you feel, and stress that you think that kind of behavior is childish and unacceptable. If he apologizes sincerely, accept it in good faith. If this is a pattern, maybe you should look in to marriage counseling, ideally as a couple, but by yourself if he is unwilling.

Answer 2

the next time you are making love after he enters you just simply ask him Are you in Yet that will get his attion also when myhusand makes coments about my weight I just tell him when he weighs less then me then he can talk to me about my weight or i go to the doctor and have the doctor examen me to see if i'm a healthy weight itch I am. makeing brownies with exlax in them and send the whole thing to work with him works great too. or even better i have even gone so far as to go purchas panits that are the same as his take out the size tag and sew in the ones from what he is whereing then he keeps thinking he is gaining weight another thing reset your scall so when he steps on it it will look like he is gaining weight then when you weigh yourself set it back to make it look like you are loosing weight. hope this help need anymore idea for anything just send me a message good luck

Answer 3

Being you are married I would assume you are a grown up and as such would know that a relationship doesn't work if all you care about is getting even. Maybe you should be asking how you can get your husband to appreciate who you are instead of how you look.

Answer 4

Get even by going to the gym every single day and getting buff. It will be the best revenge. And use his checkbook to pay for the personal trainer.

Answer 5

Stay fat. I'm not trying to be a jerk, but obviously he isn't happy with the way you look, so if revenge is what you're looking for...change nothing. However, if your looking to zip his lip and make your relationship better, maybe you should consider doing some things for you to make him see you differently. Good luck.

Answer 6

Well are you? Why are so many of us hung up on frivilous comments like this. If you are fat, be happy for yourself! If your not, whats your hang up about being called fat, anyway just give it back to him, we'll see if he can take it as well as he can dish it out.

Answer 7

It is just a spat. Get over it. It is not worth getting even over. Is he a good husband and provider and does he love you? Keep him and stop trying to get even.

Answer 8

Cook him nothing but healthy meals all day then sit back and order yourself a big old pizza.

Answer 9

leave him lose the weight dress up nice and find your self a hottie man

Answer 10

don't give him sex tell him you are to fat for it. and tell him you can loss weight but his dic* will always be tiny