Tis the season to be jolly right?
I was addressing out all my christmas cards this morning and the thought crossed my mind to send one to my soon to be exhusbands attorney.
Am i crossing th line here. I am representing myself and part of me is doing it just to get under my ex's skin. Should i just leave it alone or show the both of them that they don't intimidate me?
Am i crazy?
If it was you to be my soon ex husband how would you feel about it?
2007-12-12 13:24:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have never even met the attorney!
2007-12-12 13:34:24 · update #1
why feed the fire? just divorce him and get over it already. if i were your husband that move would just prove that you're still dwelling on him. why do you need to show them you're not scared? you'll just look like you're needy and want attention. be the bigger person and move on with your life.
2007-12-12 13:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by megs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a bright idea.
If you would go to that length to try to get under your ex's skin, that's hardly a sign of a woman who is mature and not intimidated. It comes across as really insecure, obsessed and somewhat vindictive.
The best way to show him you are handling all this just fine is to just let it go. When or if you see him between now and them, put on your brightest smile and wish him a very merry Christmas, then go about your business.
2007-12-12 21:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with, if your soon-to-be ex-husband has a lawyer and you do not, expect to come out on the short end of the settlement--and don't come blubbering to us about how divorce law favours the male.
The fact that you would even think of having any communication whatsoever with your opponent's (that what he is) attorney shows just how badly you need one yourself.
Run, don't walk to the nearest office of a good lawyer.
2007-12-12 21:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I worked for an attorney they never open the greeting cards the secretaries just tape them up on the door and go un-noticed
She Santa sends blessing for Xman
2007-12-12 21:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would just seem pathetic of you. you wont be getting under his skin by doing this, you will just be humiliating yourself. no divorce attorney cares about your christmas card and may not even ever see it.
and, if you dont listen to pagan dan and do what he says tomorrow, you are pathetic and not too bright. you are strongly warned.
2007-12-12 22:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by jaded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be confusing if I was the soon to be ex... probably wouldn't know what to think about that one... if its a male attorney, I would think you had the hots for my lawyer...Do you?
2007-12-12 21:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by BossLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are.
Stay away from doing such acts - it can be regarded with suspicion and will do you no good.
are you in some way trying to get him get soft on you in the curt?(You know that wont work- right ?)
And your ex? I am sure he wont like it
2007-12-12 21:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by rajiv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!!! It's good to have fun and you're not hurting anything. So what if they think you're crazy - it will make a great story for next Christmas!
2007-12-12 21:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na, better to cut off all ties with anyone related to your ex
2007-12-12 21:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop right there. you know there is only one reason for doing that, and it's just to p*ss someone off. believe me, you won't, you'll just make yourself look stupid.
2007-12-12 21:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋