my husband comments on every picture from pretty women he can see here .
Is he cheating ? should I do the same ?
2007-12-12 11:37:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no cheatin there...you can comment on my pic anytime..
2007-12-12 11:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Notorious DPT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating.. If he comments on every good picture, then be happy at least that he has good taste. He is YOUR husband after all. Men are visual and they sometimes comment on things. He probably thinks your comfortable with it because he's YOUR husband. I wouldn't read into it too much...
2007-12-12 19:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it cheating but if he's saying raunchy and perverted things then it is inappropriate for him to be saying. As a married man he has to respect the boundaries.
Two wrongs don't make a right so you should probably talk to him about how you feel and go from there. This is a respect issue and he needs to learn to respect you.
2007-12-12 19:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating, but he's disrespecting you as his wife by announcing his attraction. Not COOL! Infidelity on the Internet can be just as dangerous as in real life. Spice up your love life and give him reason to stay off the computer, or at least, want you more!
2007-12-12 19:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lynda G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you do the same? Try it and see what happens...Except when you comment on the guys make sure you tell him how his body doesnt look as good as theres...that should be a good way to mess up his mind forever...GROW UP!!!! What? Beause he does it, you should? What are you like 12? Is he cheating? Jesus Christ lady he is a man...men are visual creatures it doesnt mean we are wanting to do every good looking woman we see it just means we are noticing how they look...Sounds like someone has issues with their marriage...Get some help...
2007-12-12 19:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by DWInSTL 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should grow up and stop thinking marriage is a game. its called communication. ask that man is he cheating and why does he have to comment on every pretty woman picture he see and COMMUNICATE to him how it makes you feel. HELLO. you are married now act like it. GodBless
2007-12-12 19:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating? no....being passive aggressive? yes....sounds like he's trying to get a rise out of you. men know it hurts our sensibilities to hear that they think someone else is prettier/hotter than we are..... it's unnecessary and rude. Don't stoop to his level. If there's an issue between you, talk about it....don't play games to pick fights, it will get you nowhere.
to DocD......you're right it messes with mens AND womens heads to hear that you think someone else's body looks better.....it's shallow and pathetic. good luck with all that playground drama.....you should find a woman who conducts herself like one and has some class
2007-12-14 15:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by NurseJenipants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you do the same? You will commit a sin that if you think his doing it. Or maybe your husband just admire those girls, maybe he doesnt cheat you anyway.
2007-12-12 19:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by khey_rick 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would just do the same! i tell my husband that guys are cute all the time its like you can look at the menu but you cant order. if he says something to about you doing it i would say well its ok for you to do it!
2007-12-12 19:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by ella bieracki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does that to me just to get me mad at him. I don't think he is cheating.
2007-12-12 19:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start commenting on handsome men and see what he says.
2007-12-12 19:39:32 · answer #11 · answered by justwondering? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋