women: how would you feel if...?

Question

tomorrow, you woke up and you were completely unattractive sexually. guys no longer had any interest in you. most guys under 25 would be annoyed if you approached them and men in their 30s and even 40s had absolutely no interest in you but would always be interested in girls younger than you. the only guys who would give you the time of day were guys who lacked confidence and felt they couldn't do any better. more often than not they would be pretty ugly. of course one day you'd find a guy who liked you for your personality and looked past your appearance, but when it came to flirting, casual dating, and casual sex, you'd have to watch all your more attractive friends have all the fun while you just miss out.

how would you feel? would you still like sexual freedom? would you like seeing girls younger than you attracting all the guys while almost any guy who isn't ugly has no interest in you? do you think you'd be the same person you are now?

be honest please.

this question is mostly for girls who are not in a comitted relationship. but i guess it can apply to you if you are(just ignore the part about finding the right guy).

also, i'd appreciate it if you tell me your age when you answer.

winnie i already feel that way and most women seem to have NO sympathy for guys in my situation.

2108 lets say you've done that but to no avail, you are just unattractive.

Answer 1

Apparently you've never noticed how many ugly looking people there are in the world. You seem to think you're ugly and that you're the "only one." Next time you're walking through a store or down the street, take note. You'll see, it really doesn't matter what you look like. Lots of people eventually find someone who take an interest in them. Ever noticed really ugly people with really attractive ones? Happens all the time. There is no "universal law" on this subject. The best thing you can do for yourself is STOP OBSESSING. You're not the only one who has a poor self-image. You're your own worst critic. And you're actually doing yourself a major disservice by dwelling in the negativity you've created for yourself. It's hard for others to be attracted to someone who is completely obsessed with thinking the entire world has it better. That's just an illusion of your own creation, and you're harming yourself with it. You know things could be a lot worse. Have you ever stopped to count the ways that you've been blessed? Or do you think the only way you'll ever be happy is if you were to have been born "attractive"? Many people aren't attractive, and they learn to get on with their lives. It's really sad watching you do this to yourself. You have a lot going for you, and you don't even seem to realize it. How tragic that is. And how unfair it is that you judge yourself so harshly when others have worse to deal with than you do. Time to stop viewing yourself as a victim, and empower yourself instead.

Answer 2

In spite of the fact that I am stunning this is already the case as I am over 40. My mum told me about 'invisible woman' syndrome that happens in your 40's, and she is absolutely right - unless a woman of my age 'tarts up' she really isn't even there.
But as I am not needing their attention that is fine by me. I was harrassed for years, A LOT of men, A LOT of very unpleasant attention. Do not miss any of it - it was never flattering.
I never casual dated or had casual sex (well maybe a couple of times!)
Besides, I was in relationships with women for years, and I have been celibate for years too. And if I were to be with a man now he would have to be a full on intellectual with long hair and a robust constitution, and I don't think that there are many blokes like that around!

Answer 3

Well since this is pretty much my "love life" (or lack there of) right now I would say waking up to this would be waking up to another day. So yes, I would be the same person.

P.S: I've noticed that guys things ALL girls can get any dude they want by looking cute and doing the right things. Remember, in order for that stuff to work you have to be AT LEAST a little bit attractive!

Answer 4

Okay I'll be honest. I consider myself attractive. But I feel that my inner self is the true beauty. If you ever read what Plato said in regard to Socrates...that's what I mean. I don't mean...Oh, I'm so nice and care about people, so I’m beautiful...but rather its more of a more spiritual stability.

However, if that were to happen, I may find some self esteem issues with myself. As for the men who wouldn't approach me...I kind of would be glad. I would find someone, if ever, who appreciates my intellect rather than physical beauty which is insignificant.

I realize what I’ve described is ideal and utopic, but Utopia doesn’t exist, does it?.

Answer 5

Women today don't have sexual freedom. That era is long gone. What you have today are women who have forgotten that men like women who don't give up everything and keep nothing of mystery. Maybe it has always been that way. But a woman who finds herself unattractive is only that way because she doesn't feel attractive. I think age gives most women that ability to be themselves and still be attractive. I find that men are more discriminating, albeit the idiots who need youth to feel youthful, than they are given credit for. By the way, I like men who are my age or older because I don't have to share the mirror when getting ready to go out.

Answer 6

there isn't any component of the physique it extremely is reserved to particular sexual orientations. human beings would desire to be at liberty to love all feeling everywhere. it is not gay except they desire a guy doing it. people who say that it famous gay inclinations are often insecure of their very own sexuality. The deal is this - as quickly as the couple (i think they'd desire to be married) is at the back of closed doorways, there are basically 3 regulations: a million. each thing would desire to be consensual - no longer something coerced 2. the two events would desire to agree that one and all activities are good/secure 3. it is going to sense quite much as good as attainable as quickly as the couple is at the back of those closed doorways, those 2 human beings's evaluations are the only ones that count. the only guiding principle at that factor is determination. If human beings can't appreciate individuals's thoughts, it extremely is their subject.

Answer 7

People have tried to help you on here dude! get some nice threads a good haircut and nice shoes and get out there. If this doesn't work then go on holiday to Thailand it would probably boost your self esteem, but cost you a bit of money.

Answer 8

i'd probably feel the same way you would feel if you woke up and girls (provided you're not gay) no longer had any interest in you....

how would YOU feel, it's probably how anyone would feel, i don't think women are the only ones who are happy to be admired for being attractive, nor would they be the only ones who would feel differently because they look differently.

Answer 9

I'm in my late 40s and I'm sure men no longer notice me. The thing is, it doesn't bother me. I'm not interested in male attention if it is of a purely sexual nature. I don't like that kind of attention. It makes me very uncomfortable.

Answer 10

I think that as long as I was respected intellectually and continued to be thought of as an equal in my field of endeavor, I wouldn't give a hoot.