I am 'frenimies' with this girl, because my close friend is best friends with her. Lets' call the mean girl 'Coco'. The nice girl will be Nikki. Whenever I talk about a guy I like, Coco says, "He's fugly. I am not sure why you like him." When we were changing for gym, we were jokingly asking, "Do I have CURVES?" Coco said "No. You're a tree. A REALLY BIG ONE!" Nikki and I are getting sick of Coco, but Nikki won't stop bugging and harassing me. She has also said worse things, but I could get kicked off here for saying this.
2007-12-12 10:42:42 · 16 answers · asked by Someone 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I go to a school with 6 girls. Not possible to get new friends till HS
2007-12-12 10:49:43 · update #1
This girl is brining you down for no reason and its depressing and unessecary. Confront her in a firm but friendly way and say that you dont appreciate her being negative all the time and pulling you down. If you dont stop the niggling you dont want to know her. and follow through with it. As for your friend, the nice one, tell her you dont want to be around people who treat you like that, and you wont stand for it.
2007-12-12 10:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by nnatindahat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever be friends or "acquaintances" with someone who's going to put you down and actually enjoys it. Realize that she says these things for her own insecurity and gradually feels better knowing she put someone else down. Nikki and you are better off not being friends with her...NO ONE wants friends like fugly Coco :)
2007-12-12 10:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Darline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just refuse to be around someone so mean and rude, and if your best friend doesn't understand then maybe she isn't such a good friend, but another way you could handle it is simple tell "the mean one" when she says something rude that , the only reason she says things like that to you is because shes insecure with herself, and it's probably the truth.
2007-12-12 10:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh. "Coco" should be your enemy. She puts down who you like, insults your body, and you're sick of her! So is your close friend! BUT your close friend....seems like you need some time off from her. "Coco"=enemy. "Nikki"=time off but still close friends.
2007-12-12 10:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be enimies with her and this "Nikki" person when the mean one is not around talk to Nikki and tell her that you dont like her friend and stop being freinds with Nikki until she gets the message
2007-12-12 11:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyvin818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. She's someone you know (aquaintance) she has ugly ways but that's because something is wrong in her life and she's taking it out on the world. Ignore her rude and jealous comments and laugh at everything she says even if it's rude to you. He who angers you controls you. You can even just come straight out and say.... look you have nothing but really irritating comments and I would rather not hang with you because it's all negative and i'm trying to be positive and have fun. I ain't tryin' to letcha hate and frustrate so if you are gonna hang with me then kill tha noise, I ain't mad I just ain't havin' it!!!!
2007-12-12 10:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anita P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly friends :] nicely, once you're talking approximately stupid-silly, then yeah. If that is silly like making undesirable options and stuff...then probable nonetheless yeah clever enemies are greater sturdy to triumph over :[
2016-10-01 11:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by brandl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so does nikki noe wats going on? yhu shuld telll her if she doesnt. nd if she does noe... wats so good about this coco girl that makes her nikkis bf?lol. be enimies. nd if she ever says sumthing like that agen... get back aht herr.
2007-12-12 10:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by May Oo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you do not like her putting you down just because you have different taste in guys than her and dont like the way she putsd you down.You dont HAVE to put up with your behavior.Thats YOUR choice.
2007-12-12 10:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes joking dont let it bother you.If shes saying it to be mean and nasty give it back to her or just stop talking to her.
2007-12-12 10:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋