She say she is my friend but everytime I really need her help with anything she can't help but always have an opion about everything. She could be a big help sometime she always seem to make excuses. Is she pretending or what?
2007-12-12 10:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she's a fake friend! a true friend should help you with your problems!
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-12 10:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can always tell who is a TRUE friend when you ask for help and they either do or dont! This person may like you but I would not consider her a true friend! I have called off sick at work just to sit with a friend who needed me during a bad divorce! I have gone out in a snow storm to the airport to pick up a friend. I have sold items if a friend needed money and I didnt have it and she needed it more than me. A true friend will always be there for u no matter what. They will go out of their way to find a way to help u. I have alot of people I call aquaintences but only 2 I call TRUE FRIEND! And thats all u really need!!!! Merry Christmas!
2007-12-12 10:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have so many fake friends . Can't able to find a true one. Everyone using me only. Every time I feel alone. Other thing is we should not expect anything from anyone
2016-04-08 23:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. My best guess would be a fake friend. Does it seem like she uses you? Some people just don't like helping others or just can't help others. Well sorry..and good luck!
2007-12-12 10:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal definition of good friends:
Friends and family should elevate, enrich, and enhance your life. All others are acquaintances or enemies.
So how do you feel she contributes to your life and you to her? All forms of healthy relationships should be based and built on compromise. Where we each periodically sacrifice at times for the other.
I can count on my fingers 7 true good friends. I define all otehrs as acquaintances that come and go into my life.
Good luck and much prayers
2007-12-13 06:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Spicy Song Yung 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be willing. But she may not be an organized person.
May be she is not so well planned girl. In that case she might be giving excuses. In that case you can let her know about instances when u actually waited for her help. She would realize this. And may be this would help her be a better person too.
2007-12-12 10:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Prapanj Ganeshan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
---------<3maybe your friend
doesn't know the true definition
for a friend...a friend is someone
that walks in when ever one has
walked out, a friend is there unil
the end...just talk to her about it
if she's a real friend she'll listen if
she is a fake friend she wont
but dont be afraid to drop her if she
is a fake friend just dont waste your
time on her-----------<3
<3Goodluck,
hope things work out between you to...<3
2007-12-12 10:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't necesarily has to be pretending...maybe that's just her personality. If you haven't known her that long then stick around, see what she's all about and if you still don't like her ways simply call it quits. You gain some and you loose some...no biggy.
2007-12-12 10:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by rox_amillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake.
- A real friend would help u if u needed it.
2007-12-12 10:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always helping your friends, no one is there for you, you need new friends.
2007-12-12 10:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sunday's Best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋