He's soooo shy Argh but he's an Aries wtf?

Question

Sun Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Aries Venus Aries
Mars Pisces Jupiter Taurus Saturn Leo Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius Pluto Libra Lilith Taurus Asc node Libra
I am a Libra...funny thing I have the same birthday as his older brother who he loves to death.
Why is he so shy?

this is a run down
First year he liked me a lot, flirted with me and said he wishes he found me first. I ignore this because I love my bf

Year later he gets a gf in the same town who he wants me to meet. Soon he starts ignoring my phone calls etc and we no longer talk. When I tried to be friendly he told someone else I annoyed him. His gf does get easily jealous. He told someone else he started to find me annoying. When I confronted him he got upset and said he never said that and why i would believe my bf over him. He later really late at night told me the only reasons omeone would say something mean about me is because their jealous and my bf doesn't deserve me

His gf does get easily jealous. A few months later we all got drunk and he tried to kiss me(I am above 21).
I break up with my bf because we had issues. In time I see I liked the roomie, so I tell him. He says NOTHING so I take it as rejection. Later says he is just someone coming in and out of my life.
Now he is moving out. I wrote him a grad card thanking him for inspiring me. After five months of no contact I called him to talk about the stray cat they found. He said he misses talking to me. Why didn't he call/ email? He said he wants to see me and is upset he is moving even farther and he will never see/talk to me again. I'm confused. he is still with his gf and I am with my BF again and happy.
Why would he do this? Does he like me? why not call ME is he misses me? I am confused
He has told me in the past that no matter what happens between me and my bf HE HAS to take his side because they are roomies and he told the other roomate I am off limits because they are roomies.

They are NOT friends however so I am just confused with alll of this and it's making me sad. I DO want to be a friend.


He is also a fire SNAKE if that helps

Answer 1

He doesn't sound shy to me. Just confused with how things are going and unable to get control over it... That's the first impression I got after reading it. Either way, regardless of where mercury is, it is hard enough for a Gemini moon to tell someone about their feelings for them and the easiest thing to do often seems just to break off all contact with that person and focus all your attention on someone who you know you don't love but who keeps you occupied, at least.

I've done it before. In fact I'm doing it right now. (I'm a gemini moon - to make it worse, in 7th house; can't live with, can't live without)

In addition, gemini moons tend to approach their emotions rationally.

Then to his mercury (because, in such a situation it's always emotions and conversation, isn't it?) in Aries. He should be generally very direct and honest in his conversations. So I'm sure that whatever he has said to you, is true. He's no reason to lie to get you in the sack, because he has a girlfriend who he can get in the sack anytime he wants if that's what he's after...

I can't say more than this, unless you could provide me with his date, time and place of birth? (the position of the planets in the houses and the aspects they make are usually more important than their positions in the signs, so this is only a very general descrpition, and that's why I didn't elaborate further...)

But I would like to finish with this; are you sure you're as happy with your bf as you say? Or even, that you love your boyfriend? Because this man seems to have a serious effect on you...

Answer 2

I even have met like one shy Aries, yet when I have been given to be attentive to that individual, they weren't shy anymore. i think of a shy Aries might ought to have a lot of of Water or Earth of their chart. frequently you could spot a Ram from 10 miles away.

Answer 3

Characteristics of Aries (21 March to 21 April)

The first sign of the zodiac is the child of the zodiac. You tend to have a "me-me" attitude, like the smallest infant, that you and your needs are the centre of the universe. You are innocent but egocentric, naive and fearless. As uncomplicated as a child, it's a case of "what-you-see-is-what-you-get" with the Ram. They have an indomitable pioneering spirit. It makes sense then that the Ram is not often content in submitting to others and would often prefer to be self-employed or at the top of your chosen profession, giving orders to the rest of us. In this you are rather unsubtle and can lack tact and humility. Again, the WYSISWYG thing - you can expect Aries to be very honest, frank and direct, and diplomacy is not one of your strongest points! However Aries can be very generous with both their time and material things. You have a desire to lead and genuinely believe you can do better than other people. You enjoy doing favours for others - you're not necessarily striving for money but glory and recognition mean a lot to you. "Credit where it's due". You have faith in yourself but often a naive trust in others. You are quick to anger, but the tantrum is soon over. You can't remain angry for long, and often apologise soon after. You can be satirical and sarcastic. Energetic, especially when young, you have a strong constitution but be careful not to abuse it. Despite your firebrand spirit you can't stand physical pain, but as you like to be on top you hate to submit to illness. A great optimist, Aries is friendly, forceful, idealistic and comes straight to the point.

Characteristics of Libra (23 August to 23 October)

Although the scales most obviously symbolise balance, the Libran is not always perfectly balanced. A set of weighing scales is rarely so, going up and down a lot of the time,and this is the case of people born under this sign. One moment the Libran will indeed be calm and balanced, but also you can be annoying, argumentative, stubborn, irritable, depressed and confused. You can be frustrating to others in your inconsistency. You seek harmony but can be prone to over-indulge in eating, drinking or sex. This over-doing it can be the biggest threat to your health so watch out for it. By turns you can be very industrious, then indolent and lazy, because you need to alternate your periods of frenetic activity with complete rest. Often it is as if you are two different people. Your emotions, high or low, are deep and rich. You shun exaggeration and hate embarrassing displays of violence, anger or passion. You love to weigh things up, to analyse and balance the pros and cons in your mind. This versus that, this way or the other? So you seem to others to be indecisive, although you probably deny it. Mostly you will be scrupulous and honest, not careless. You like to take your time deciding on the right course and get it right. At heart you are artistic and have a love of books and libraries.


Aries & Libra:
These two make a pretty good combination. The warm and passionate Libra can build a make a welcome for the fiery, impulsive Aries. This will be particularly true if both persons are on the same cultural and intellectual level. This could be a poor match if either one of them is from a culture or religion varying from their own, unless they know this weakness and is willing to work with it. Aries appreciates the passion and emotion that Libra person possesses, but too much of a good thing could make this go wrong. There has to be a balance for this to work. There is a wide margin for error though, and most of these combinations will stand the test of time. Libra's refined and artistic temperament yearns for attachments, but it must be reciprocal, this is something Aries can deliver.

If you were to think of your Sun sign as your soul -- your inner personality and potential -- and your Moon sign as your heart -- your emotional core -- then you could say that your Rising sign is your physical self or the face mask you present to the world.
Here is a link for you to research
http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php

Aries outlook for 2008: New opportunities arise this year, resulting in a positive turn for your career. You will learn to master your energy to meet your goals. You are good at taking leadership, and you'll make deep, transforming changes and tap into this abundant energy in new and dynamic ways. Even though you may feel pulled to accomplish great things, you will still be able to keep balance in your personal life and your energy alive and renewed. Amidst this change, you will be able to remain mentally focused. You may become more methodical and practical than usual in managing your responsibilities. Stopping to think things through carefully will impact you and your surroundings in a very profound and positive way. Seize the opportunity to think things through during the first few months of the year. Even though you enjoy beginning new projects, make the time to relax a bit to complement your natural tendency toward activity, both physical and otherwise. As you successfully achieve your career goals this year, it will be important to maintain a watchful eye over the security of your family life. You may find yourself doing some remodeling in your home and you will take pleasure in spending more time and energy enjoying the creature comforts you have created. You will cultivate good relationships through the end of the year, which will reflect positive changes in your life. Your will enjoy socializing more than usual. You will be networking and connecting with different types of people from all over the world and it will feel like a breath of fresh air. As your career takes off, it will be much easier than usual to express yourself with warmth and charm.

Libra outlook for 2008: This year is all about manifesting your personal goals and highlighting life lessons. You may want to withdraw into your own world when, in reality, you have a strong urge to evolve. Detach from the mundane and spend more time discovering and caring for your own needs, nurturing all the love within that keeps your health flowing positively. Making long-overdue positive and practical changes in your living situation will be important, whether it's putting on the decorating cap or moving into a new house. Home represents your foundation and is symbolic of who you are. You will have the inner strength and ability it takes to accomplish what you desire. The freed up energy will give you the optimism and enthusiasm to spread your wings and have long-deserved fun. It will be as though someone opened up a large picture window to let some fresh air flow in. Your life will definitely be brighter as new energy and opportunities come your way easily and freely. You will feel a great burden lift and come into a new sense of seeing things from a higher perspective. Feeling reconnected with your hopes and dreams and having time to be sociable and chatty and being with friends and family will suit you just fine. Music is a great source of inspiration for to connect your talents with your quest for harmony -- true to your Libran nature of requiring peacefulness, harmony and balance in your life. Conserve some of your strength to relax and draw on a new sense of courage to help you achieve. Traveling will be a good outlet for you to expand your romantic interests.

LIBRA is compatible with Gemini, Aquarius, Leo and Taurus.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

What does "wtf" mean? Anyway, thanks for the 2 pts.