how can i be a better person for myself and my friends?

Question

to be more sociable and funny at the same time or whatever girls like

Answer 1

here ill tell you the secret that you need to know, to be a better person you have to figure out yourself first conquar all your fear, become confident in areas youve felt weak,

save you a few years of thinking, people will love you > when u love yourself cheers mate

Answer 2

Dude: the secret to being all of those things you want to be is to accept and really love yourself - with and without your flaws. Think about this; what can you give of yourself if you don't even like who you are?

I'm assuming you're young...so you already have a strike against you due to hormones and another for trying to "fit in". Those things will pass.

Next thing is be the best person you can be to YOURSELF. If you're funny, let yourself be funny; if you're a little weird, that's ok too. Laugh at yourself. Learn a few "clean jokes". Keep yourself and your surroundings neat and clean (girls look at this..especially your nails and ears). I'm not talking about "style", I'm talking neat and clean. Be polite and have manners! Open the door for the ladies and such. SMILE ! Very important as is body language (google it). Now here is the kicker...vounteer to do something in an area you're in which you have interest. Health interest? Volunteer at the hospital. Love animals; at the animal shelter. Books...the library. Water/ocean....aquarium. Building? Habitat for Humanity. Music...music therapy. Etc, etc. In all of these places you will learn something you like, you will become a more interesting person, you will have something to talk about to others AND...you will meet other people. It's call "networking"..you meet someone, they know someone they introduce you to, and so on and so on. In the mean time, carry around some Lifesavers in your pocket to start up a conversation with a girl you might have your eye on. "Lifesaver"? Learn her name; say hello and smile everytime you see her and use her name. Eventually, she will ask you your name. Oh, do this when she's alone. Eventually you can have lunch with her; heck have lunch with a bunch of girls and the more you like yourself, the more others will enjoy your company. You sound like a great guy to me already! Godloveya.

Answer 3

This is a rather noble goal but I would caution you to attenuate your focus just a bit (for your own healthy development). Improvements that you commit to making in yourself, do FOR yourself..let the benefits to your friends be a residual result, but not a concern.
The most effective method for producing positive changes in yourself is to model behaviors of people who arleady exhibit traits you respect. Positive achievers have certain habits and attitudes in common no matter how diverse their areas of accomplishment. Surrounding yourself around positive people tends to produce positive results in you because you will mimic behaviors you see demonstrated by them. And, almost every aspect of life is strengthened by further learning, whether that happens formally or incidentally (through increased observation or your part). It's an approach to living that should be a lifelong quest...this will increase your confidence in a wide variety of social situations, enhance your appreciation of the infinite diversity in humans, and develop an ability to interact well with a vast array of cultures...thereby making you truly a citizen of the world. Good luck in this endeavor. Enjoy the journey.

Answer 4

well the only way to do that is the set yourself up with priorities whats important to you and whats not and then stick to it, don't do things or say things that aren't yourself but don't be afraid to see different parts of yourself and be able to work that into your personality... nobody's personality can attract everyone but you'd be surprised a lot of people have a nice sense of humor but they are too shy to show sometimes all it takes is more confidence in letting others know who you are...

Answer 5

First and foremost-you need to learn to like yourself. If you like the person you are-you make friends easy. You have more confidence in yourself which other people can see. If you don't like yourself-how do you expect other people to like you.

Answer 6

Be confident in yourself. Know and believe that you are funny and a great person. They will see your confidence and if you believe in yourself, it should come natural to you. (but you may want to memorize some jokes to have just in case...) ya know for emergency situations.....lol

Answer 7

You need to analyse different personalities. People are different so you should do more listening than talking and while your listening you will learn more about that person. If yout trying to impress chicks then just be yourself.

Answer 8

You have to be yourself, and you have to only do it for yourself. Your friends will love you for it, and you will attract a girl that is really into you for who YOU are...

Answer 9

just be yourself. Dont be hateful, mean, a liar, a cheater, or a thief and all should be well! oh, and remember to smile!!!

Answer 10

dont be shy to say anything to you friends.. dont say things just because you think ur friends will think your cool for saying that. be yourself..and dont be negative. ya dig?