if someone were to bother you so much that you decided to take your life would you or not explain?

Answer 1

Depends on the bother. It would seem to me I'd be better off bothered than dead. You can always move (when you're old enough). Call the cops on your botherer.

Answer 2

Firstly, I must say that if someone were to take their own life based on their interactions with one other person, then the person taking his or her life has certainly allowed the person that's bothering him or her to have much too much influence. In allowing another person that much control over you, you've given them too much credit. I've found that it's not worth the trouble to let people like that take up that much of your time and energy; if they bother you, then don't hate them or yourself; just ignore them and focus your energy elswhere, on people that you enjoy.

That said, your question was not whether not to make the decision to take your own life, it was whether or not to explain. And my answer would be yes, I would explain, for those people that I did enjoy and love, and who loved me. Suicide is not a trivial thing, and making the decision to end your life without explanation is an awful thing to do to the people you care about (not to suggest doing it with explanation is much better), and knowing what the motivation was would perhaps offer the slightest comfort to those who would undoubtedly be confused and hurt by the loss.

I would also suggest that if you or someone close to you is considering this question as a real option, take the opportunity now to explain to someone you care about and trust why suicide is being considered; in other words, explain it beforehand rather than after, when it is to late. I am sure there are other options that could be considered, and although the situation may be difficult now, there are likely better solutions available that you may need help with.

Best wishes.

Answer 3

I've thought about it. Someone once told me that when my feelings turn homicidal that I'm getting better! They were joking, of course, but it made sense. They were somewhat right. Turning anger/hurt from us toward another is a step, but not the answer, to healing.

When we leave, they win. We all hear/process information with a filter that is for our highest good. If you explained to them why they "caused" you to check out, then they will explain it away (to themselves and others) leaving them free to take the focus off them and what their part may be in this troubled situation. I, too, have considered checking out, and here's the thinking behind it -- "I'll show THEM. I'll kill ME." Not a fair trade, is it?... But I got my perspective back. And you will, too. If you're talking about you, that is...

Suicide is a permanent solution to a TEMPORARY problem.

Hope that you'll get better, and pray for the turd that they get everything they want, need and deserve. They may not improve, but you may...

Wishing you the best. (of course Goethe was right - if this involves criminal behavior, get experts/proper authorities involved.)

Love to you.

Answer 4

Sweetie if someone is bothering you so much that you are thinking of suicide tell whoever the jerk is to back the hell up off you.I WISH I WERE THERE AS NO ONE WOULD BOTHER OR HARESS YOU' AS YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON' AND A GREAT FRIEND..

Answer 5

Bothered is better than dead. Get some help if you are being harrassed. Death isn't the answer.

Answer 6

no i wouldnt, they are bothering you to control you, upset you and thus control your emotions
taking your life says that they won, you let them get to you so much that you lost your personal sense of power

Answer 7

Don't do this.............gunnaa ho gaa