grrrr i hate my small boobs? =(?

Question

so basically, my boobs are a little bigger than kate moss. but they hardly show when i wear sweaters etc..and today this boy at lunch was like "i cant believe your 15 and still have a flat chest..sucks for you.." and all my friends were laughing. i feel so insecure because of my boobs and it makes me feel less attractive..what should i do? im only 15 and my mom was flat too. she said her boobs grew alot at 20. how do i feel more confident? thanks


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i know its probably because im naturally skinny (5'6'' 114 pds)

my bf likes me no matter what..but ppl's comments still hurt..

Answer 1

I'm just like you. And you know what hun? It didn't bother me at all. What i did is put my head up high and i was proud to be who i am and size don't matter even. One thing you could say to yourself is: "I'm not the only one.. I'm not the only one..". You are still a beautiful individual, vanity isn't that important and you will start to notice. Be proud of yourself and be proud of who you are as a person, not because of the way you look. Friends are a big influence so i am not so surprised that you think this way when they say these things. Ignore it, the best thing i would come up with is: "And what? Bigger boobs is not going to make me get a job at a hospital, my brain does".. It's the inside that matters. Just put your head up high and be proud of who you are. I know how you feel, but i adjusted myself around the situation and i have learned to love myself. I had my little sister giving me all these comments as well, but she has small ones too. In fact, she wanted to wear a bra a lot more than i did.. She is more insecure about it than i am, i seemed to be okay about it compared to her. You are still beautiful and if your boyfriend loves you.. There's nothing you have to change. And people's comments hurt, they do, and there are ways of avoiding that kind of pain inside your heart. Be happy about yourself, then people's comments wouldn't matter.

Answer 2

I've had C cup boobs and I lost a lot of weight and now they are A cup. Between having C cup and A cup, I easily prefer A. It's easier to run, do sport, go up and down stairs, easier to find comfortable bras, you can wear soft cup bras, etc. There are a tonne of advantages to having smaller boobs. You don't know how lucky you are. Seriously, any guy that chooses his girlfriends based on boob size is not worth being with. There's obviously not going to be much more to your relationship than the physical part. Do NOT change your body for a guy- change it for you. Find a guy that loves you as you are and THEN take a look at yourself, if indeed you would like to change something about yourself physically.. but don't do it for a guy.. especially not this one. In short, your boyfriend is a wanker. Dump him and tell him that it's because you could never satisfy him with your small boobs, but he could never satisfy you with his small mind and small penis.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I'm almost twenty and I'm an A cup. You're only 15 though, so it's possible that they will grow a little bit more. Don't worry about people saying stuff about your boobs. Just think- In 30 years, we'll be the ones with boobs that are still perky, while all the girls making fun of you will be hanging down to their knees!

Besides, girls with big boobs constantly complain about how they're always in the way. I have a friend with triple D boobs and she has horrible back pain.

Trust me, you will find someone that loves you no matter what size bra you wear.

Answer 4

I know EXACTLY what your goin through!!! lol I once had a boy write me a poem that said... "Roses are Red Violets are Black, Why is your chest as flat as your back!!" It Hurts a lot and it sucks because there isn't anything you can do bout it!! I never had my friends laugh at me though so I don't know what that feels like but I imagine it hurts!! I am now 18 almost 19 and my breast have grown more but I am still an A cup!! You will find out that once you get older you will start to love your body because honestly most guys prefer smaller boobs to the big nasty fake ones!! A 15 yr old boy may still prefer BIG boobs but they are immature and are just now hitting puberty so thats what they are in to!! Just tune them out or if I were you I'd tell them to shut the F*** up and mind their own d*** Business!!! I promise it will get easier!!! Guys like that are jerks and carma will come back around and bite them in the ***!! Just wait till he starts havin a squeaky voice when he's hittin puberty and then get your revenge!! Good Luck and if you ever need to talk I am here!!! <3

Answer 5

Are those ppl really your friends?
Because friends wouldn't do that.
You know, they've got bras now that are called "nearly A"
its like, half the size of an a cup.
You'll grow!! But remember: Big boobs hurt! I dont know what size I am, but if I don't wear a bra, they hurt.
Ignore the mean ppl and be who u r!
They'll grow! Sometimes they stop growing at about that time or start growing at that time! Everyones different.


DONT GET BREAST IMPLANTS PLEASE!!! They're dangerous and dont last but 2 years!

Answer 6

Next time some kid tells you that, tell them to "F*** OFF! Stop staring at my chest and worry about your small balls." Duh, any 15 year old would have small balls...lol. Feel confident about yourself. You have to realize you are not the only teen girl with a small chest. There are many here! If your mom said she was the same, most likely you'll probably have to mature later. She did, right? So there is still a big chance you have to mature more. Just like you said, Kate Moss has small boobs. Well, see...even celebrities have small chests. All that money in the world and some still don't get implants. It's all about confidence. You'll mature soon enough.

Answer 7

Hello there dear. I am 18 and I am still an A cup. I feel your pain. I went through the exact same thing. Look at it this way. What exactly are boobs........BODY FAT!!!!! It is just less fat that you have on your body. when my friends tease me i tell them I would rather have small boobs because its less fat on me and I also tell them when I'm 40 they will still be pery verses hanging down to my belly button. Good Luck hun and keep your head held high!

Answer 8

I am 15 too and i have small boobs too,and to make myself feel more confident, espeacialy when im in public is wear tight fitting shirts. Yes, it might sound skanky but i dony mean those shirts that have the low V see my boobies tight. Wear those shirts that have that clingy bit ,but its comfortable and it provides that shape that you want. Another thing you can do is start wearing paded bra's. They give you that full look and comfort. Also know that boobs are not for horny guys they are actually for your offspring, although i knwo how u feeel.

Answer 9

Boys are stupid. You should be proud of your body. Besides, small chests are very "high fashion".. you never see a supermodel with huge breasts aside from a Victoria's secret model.

You could buy a push up bra.. or you could feel lucky that you don't have to wear a bra-harness type thing when you run, you can wear tanktops and not worry about bursting out of them, and you can wear triangle top bikinis! Plenty of men prefer smaller chested women, you'll find when you're older. Don't worry about stupid boys. Your friends will be jealous when you look lovely in your strapless prom dresses which they wouldn't be able to wear!!

Answer 10

Oh gosh~! Do help me too!
I'm 15 at 5"3 and 97 lbs with a 32A... How sad is that?
I guess we just gotta live with it.
There's push up bras, water bras, implants, yada yada....

But do tell me when you get answer...
After all, boobs are just fats...