the total number of people you have been with before him/her?
2007-12-12 08:40:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-12-12 08:49:30 · update #1
Your are asking for trouble. I would'nt suggest for all couples.
2007-12-12 08:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by mik4759 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
particular, besides the undeniable fact that that is extra mature to not ask. quicker or later somebody says in any case. i've got had between 50-80 (at age 40 3); my contemporary spouse says 5 (at age 40 5). My ex-female buddy claimed to lose count variety at one hundred fifty (at age 40 5). women persons ought to continuously answer with decrease than 10 (decrease than 5 till age 30). i'm in simple terms telling you what a guy desires to take heed to. no one needs entire honesty. good success.
2016-11-03 01:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by jetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened before us is the past, but if she really wants to know my past, I don't mind telling.
I don't recommend getting in to details of any relationship but if she wants to know a number then be as honest as possible.
These conversations usually lead to arguments so if you are as straight forward as possible you will show you have nothing to hide.
Personally it does cross my mind, but that's where it ends.
2007-12-12 09:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because it is none of their business. You are just asking for trouble. Nine times out of ten they will compare you with their previous men/women. It is better to take some things to the grave with you.
2007-12-12 08:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by TCB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
Sorry~~ I am totally honest about everything.
But this is something that is not as important as we mature.
It is "What we do" with our pasts that is important.
Not "How many we do".
The number is immaterial.
The learning experience is VERY important.
Tell me you learned some valuable "Life Lessons"
Don't tell me with "how many".
When you answer those questions honestly~~then I decide if I want you as a partner.
2007-12-12 08:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yep. He's actually told me some funny stories about things that have happened. We didn't get together until our very late 20's. He's got a past and I sort of have a past. Laugh about it now. I don't care as long as he's with me for the long haul.
2007-12-12 08:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by siobhann1013 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have with previous boyfriends. I mean, I don't just jump right out and say it, but it's not a secret or anything. I think that if they ask, they have the right to know.
2007-12-12 08:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep, my hubby knows. If they can't take the answer and understand that it was before they met you then they need to grow up.
2007-12-12 08:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give a truthful range not an exact list and for goodness sake do not give names!
2007-12-12 08:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'd discuss that with anyone. If I was going to be ashamed about it- I wouldn't have done it. BTW- 5.
2007-12-12 08:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sarcastibitch 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋