K everyone, I really really really would appreciate honest answers on this one. If I have my baby vaginally will sex feel the same as it did before for me and my fiance. I know things take time to get back to normal but please tell me the truth :)..Once things go back to normal (how long does that take) and will sex feel exactly the same to me
2007-12-12 08:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by ash 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If it is different, what is different about in in particular? thanks
2007-12-12 08:33:07 · update #1
Yes it will feel the very same if you have your baby delivered vaginally. I waited for about 6 weeks though for everything to heal up, and my husband didn't mind one bit. He understood what I had been through-especially with our first child who is now 37 years old-27 hours of labor, but not really-I was induced and the darn machine didn't work correctly for a long time, but when it did work right, it didn't take long at all before I had a beautiful baby girl that weighed in at 5 lbs. 8 ounces. The next one was really quick and lots bigger and a lot longer-it was a boy who now is 34 and married.
2007-12-12 11:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Socko 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't have to have sex to be an adult, you are a child until you are 21 years old. Right now you're probably just going through puberty and you can't control yourself. Not even I, a 21 year old woman, am not desperate to sleep with my bf. Sad, the youth of today thinks sex is fun and games and "hey let's do it cause everyone's doing it!" But when they're left pregnant they don't want to be an adult. I wish I was still a kid, back in the day I didn't need to worry about paying bills, working, and etc. You're not even ready to care for a child, is the stupidest thing anyone under the age of 18, can do, specially you. Tell me, do you think you can wake up every 3hrs to feed the baby, do you have money to support the child? Don't say you're parents now, cause that's not part of being an adult, that's just being irresponsible, a baby requires a lot of responsibility. Then when you're 15 you're gonna wanna go to the clubs or go out and have fun but u can't go cause you got other responsibilities at home. Girls like you are a shame to society. You think that if you get pregnant by that dude he's gonna stay with you? And if he does, don't you think he will go to jail? You were my daughter I'd kick you out of my house and won't even feel pity for you and you're child. Seems to me like you gotta watch the Maury show, Oprah, or Tyra. Plus, there's a bunch of STD's out there that not all condoms can help prevent, so just enjoy your youth in a smart, healthy and responsible way, you have a long time to experience such things, and just cause others do it doesn't mean you should.
2016-05-23 06:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 8 weeks postpartum, I had a vaginal delivery and got two small disolvable stitches. Once my stitches healed (at about 5 weeks) I tried sex with the hubby and it hurt like hell but at the same time was great for some reason my clitoris was much more sensitive (which isn't a bad thing..lol). My husband is rather large so I'm guessing thats why it hurt so bad..some people think that once you have a baby your vagina will be lose but that's not the case mine is tighter than before I was pregnant don't be alarmed if it's not tight immediately it wil take some time. Oh yes..no lubricant needed over here. Don't worry things will go back hun. Good luck!
2007-12-12 08:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by chichibaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my daughter vaginally and it took a while before it felt normal again but it does come back. I found that I had to use lubrication because of dryness which took about 3 months to rectify and it also felt a little uncomfortable in certain positions if you have any stitches where the tissue is reforming. I found that it took a while to settle down but it did return to normal. I too did pelvic floor exercises to strengthen my muscles which I think helped. Make sure you use protection as you will be more fertile now than ever before and I found this out the hard way but unfortunately miscarried in early pregnancy.
2007-12-12 08:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tore with my 1st (I'm pregnant with my 2nd). My doctor stitched me up great and I think I was a little tighter than before. Always have been tight. Sex doesn't seem any different now. Don't worry, I don't know many women who were significantly bigger after birth. Your body is made to go back to normal.
2007-12-12 09:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I waited 4 weeks after having my baby. And yes it does feel the same as it did before.
2007-12-12 08:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It felt the same to me but it hurt really bad the first couple of times kinda like when I lost my virginity. It takes a while for it to reshape.
2007-12-12 11:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by MommaRobyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot tell you from experience but my friend has had 2 vag deliveries and she says no, it is not the same. Her husband is small so it is really hard for them.
2007-12-12 08:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you breastfeed then things can feel a little bit drier and you might have to use lubrication. When I finished breastfeeding things felt pretty normal. If not even tighter. Maybe they sewed me up a little tighter I dunno.
2007-12-12 08:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by notthatiknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no almost but not quite the same.
2007-12-12 08:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋