How long should one last during intercourse?

Question

I am 26 and I have a serious question.
How can I make my self last longer? Sometimes I can last more than 10-15 minutes, but most of the time it only last about 1-2 minutes or a bit more. Once in a great while I will last a very long time close to an hour.
Am I over exiting my self?
How can I change this or I should I say improve this?
Does it have to do with how many times you have sex or how many times you masterbate?

The problem is that my partner does not enjoy oral sexat all
The problem is that I have received the complain when I ask if their was a reason why we dont have sex more often she responded that she doesn't enjoy sex at all and thinks she can live whith out it and she also said that when she really feels like it is when I last a short time.

Answer 1

I think it's time to find a new partner. If she's feeling like she could live without sex right now, can you imagine how she'll feel about it as she ages?

She's not a good match sexually for you.

If you want to last a long time during sex, then jack off an hour before you have sex....

Answer 2

As the first answer said, switching from different types of sexual stimulation is a smart idea if you would like to elongate the special moment with your partner. If you just want to focus on the "real deal," however, you should probably start by just doing some different stuff and exciting each other's body for 5-10 minutes before you start up the real thing. You shouldn't go right into it if you want the moment to last longer. Besides, a little playing around won't hurt, right?

I would masturbate more, as well, if you want to last a little longer. Get used to taking a while to orgasm and then it will train your body to last longer in bed.

Remember, though, that sex is not just about you. You have to keep in mind your partner. Ask her how long she wants to go. She might only want a little bit and in some moods she might prefer a romantic elongated experience. It all depends on the mood. I hope I helped you out, man.

Answer 3

Try slowing down or even stopping for a little while if you must and then getting back to it. Also, don't stress. The more you stress about it, the more you lose control. That's a fact. If you're worried about not pleasing your partner, then try masturbating her and performing cunnilingus. That should go without saying. Masturbating more might help, but in my opinion isn't the best way to go because it takes away from the sexual experience since it can deprive you of your full sexual energy, unless you do it together with your partner. It's also important, like the person who replied before me said, to keep in mind that your partner might not necessarily want to go for a marathon. Sometimes a quicky is all you have to go for. The only thing I have to add to that is that there's lots of information you can find online with techniques to last longer. Try searching for tantric sex techniques or something like that and you're bound to find something. If search engines don't get you what you want, try p2p programs. You read a bit and you practice and with time you'll be able to last as long as you want.

Answer 4

Well usually me and my guy last about 15 to 20 i think most guys do when its the actual intercourse but with all the foreplay and kissing and touching it is a little longer. Yeah guys like to think that they last forever but they need to be reminded that it isn't how long the last it is the quality they give us and that we are satisfied.

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Answer 5

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Answer 6

I just took my Human Sexuality exam and it was on different sexual therapies. One method that I read about was the squeeze technique.

Once or twice everyday, in a comfortable setting for about 30-60mins, allow yourself to achieve an erection. Do your thing until you are about to reach the point of no return and squeeze you thumb and fingers below the corona. After that wait until the arousal subsides and repeat.

My book says do it until you know your plateau phase and can keep from letting go then you can last as long as you like.

Answer 7

As long as it takes for both parties to be satisfied with the results.
You have a muscle that you use to stop urine flow, contract that if you even feel close, it is like legals for men.
Sam P and Ricardo P are right.. and from a ladies point of view, it isn't how long. just please don't leave us hanging, so be creative and don't worry so much, and you will do fine.

Jay you are not the problem..

Answer 8

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It explains how to end premature ejaculation for good. It’s basically a blueprint on how to develop natural control over your ejaculation. It actually reprograms your ejaculatory reflex so that you last longer without even trying.

It involves a combination of techniques, learning knowledge, and following a specific approach that attacks premature ejaculation from all three angles; the physical, mental, and hormonal. I was able to cure my premature ejaculation problem in only 2 weeks and I never had a problem again.

Answer 9

Stop and start. Go from oral to intercourse and back to oral over and over and over. She'll love it and you'll last forever.

Answer 10

i wouldnt worry about it as long as us women dont complain