What would you think of a girl who does it with in the first week?
2007-12-12 07:47:22 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Depends on how much you like him and if you are ready to have sex with him. It doesnt matter if you sleep with him in the first week, doesnt make you less respectable than anyone else. If it feels right and you both want to do it, then go for it! You are both adults and can do what you please!
2007-12-12 07:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jayde A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think any women who decides to sleep with someone did it for a reason...and I can only hope she was mature enough to haddle the out come...I am not one to bless the sexual union of an unmarried couple, but fact is fact people are goin got have sex. I think that in todays society there is a clear double standard...it's ok for a man to sleep around, he's a "pimp"...but the second a women feels as if she's sexually liberated she's a "whore"...well I say if you as an adult women wants to sleep with a man, do it. You are old enough to make your own dicisions...but you have to remember that you have to be mature enough to deal with the outcomes...he may not want to be with you long term because he now looks at you as being easy, and if he could sleep with you after only a few hours/days...he may think that this is something you do A LOT...or maybe he just thinks you had a REALLY great connection. It's not up to the world to tell you what to do in situations like this...you just have to go with your heart, and only go as far as your comfort level will let you. AND USE PROTECTION if you do decide to have sex...I'm only saying this next part because I don't want to be the one to get blamed for encouraging you to have premarital sex...lol Your best bet is to wait until you fall in love enough to want to spend the rest of your life with a man...get married then have sex...good luck!
2007-12-12 08:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you aren't necessarily waiting anymore. Basing a relationship off of mere expectations and sex is superficial. And I agree, what would you think of a man who would do that? It's the same... I guess it all depends how you want the relationship to go and where you want it directed. If you think something that can be substantial and alter so many things can be handled within the first week, and not affect it negatively, and if it's consensual, then I'm not one to judge.
As long as you got them snake skins ready.
2007-12-12 07:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 3 weeks is long enough to wait in the real world.... in spite of all the hypocrites who will tell you otherwise. lol. Only thing that matters is if you wanted it. However that you may want the relationship to progress or even if you wanted just a fling, 3 weeks is sufficient. Besides you knew the guy for much longer. Dont worry about it. Completely cool.
2016-05-23 06:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that a girl who had sex on the first date needs all the attention that she can get. She is wanting of love and wanting to be with a man that can be her mate in an act of desperation despite any social norms. She should be honored and loved for allowing a man to have sex with her.
2007-12-12 07:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Neomaxizoomedweebie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, Save yourself for your future husband. He could be here today and gone tomorrow. Women who start sleeping with boyfriends end up like used tires. Worn out with Lots of mileage from various guys who only wanted to satisfy themselves. The way to keep get a boyfriend is Never by any means jumping in the sack with him. You have to earn his respect. If he really cares about you he will be willing to wait. Plus think of the Sexually Transmitted Diseases you may get. Sex today can be deadly. Dont think it could never happen to me. Its been well documented... Some people who have had sex with just 1 person who they did now very well sometimes end up with HIV and Aids. Save Yourself for your husband. Its not worth it.
2007-12-12 07:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's anyone's business, so who cares what they think?
Everyone should live their own life - if you are comfortable with the guy and confident in your own sexuality, then sleep with him whenever you want.
I soonest I ever slept with someone was the 2nd time I saw him... lol.... yeah, I was a slutty girl. :) We've been married for 6 yrs and are totally happy.
Life is too short to worry about what others think. You are living your life - they aren't.
2007-12-12 07:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere around the 10th date, but it depends on how often you see each other. Most couples go out slowly, about once a week.
I think a good amount of time is anywhere from 1-3 months and it depends on both people.
2007-12-12 07:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To each its own. Meaning you have control over what you do and how you will feel after wards. I don't think it should matter what anyone else thinks but you. If its something you want to do, go for it. I also say be careful, is this what you want or what he wants. Please don't just sleep with him because he wants it, you make sure you want it too. Girl be in control of what you do and make sure you get yours. LOL Hope this helped.
2007-12-12 07:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i made my hubby wait 2 an a half months when we got together 6yrs ago . not that i wasnt ready or he wasnt but i wanted to make sure he was with me for the right reason. an he was =)i dont judge but i wouldnt sleep with a guy the first week. theres still stuff u need to learn about him . you dont want someone to hit it an quit it . good luck =)
2007-12-12 07:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋