I'm kinda uncomfortable with my boyfriend sometimes because he's not a virgin and I am. He's never pushed me into doing anything that I dont want to do and I know he never will. I'm worried that if we ever do, do anything that I'll look stupid because I wont really know what I'm doing and he will. Is it normal to feel this way? We're both in highschool
2007-12-12 06:09:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
We've talked about sex and he told me that he wishes he would have waited that he just did it because everyone else was. He told me that doesn't want me to feel like I have to do anything. He also told me that being with me and being so close to me like that would mean the world to him and it wouldn't be anything less then perfect.
2007-12-12 06:39:57 · update #1
It's very normal to wonder about your first sexual experience and to feel uncomfortable about it. I applaud you for waiting! Once you give in, you can never take it back and later on, you might wish you could.
Your boyfriend says he will never push you but telling you how close it would make him feel to you and how perfect it will be a-l-m-o-s-t sounds like a gentle push! Take all the time you want and think carefully about it.
2007-12-12 06:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not stupid.. just not ready for sex. Just make sure you stay a virgin until your very sure your ready. When you are ready you will not think at all about how you'll look, you'll just feel it's right and it will happen. All you need to plan or worry about in advance is the Birth control, condoms, and be ready for all the responsibility that comes with having sex. Just think it out before you lose your virginity.
2007-12-12 14:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great boyfriend then if he is that understanding. No, you wont look stupid either...once things start happening, you kinda get the jist of it and go along. But like they say, practice makes perfect =]
2007-12-13 01:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by rissabear ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being stupid. It is perfectly normal to feel like this. Talk to him and be open with him. He should understand. You will probably be caught up in the moment so much ,you wont even think about it!
Good luck!
2007-12-12 14:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be uncomfortable too at times. It is natural to feel insecure when you have a more expierienced bf or a older one. Just try not to let him get the best of you, and don't just have sex so he won't leave.
2007-12-12 19:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know your boyfriend really well before you even discuss Sex. Enjoy yourself with him. Just because he has does not make him an expert and he maybe just as nervous as you.
2007-12-12 15:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by ummsulaima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel this way. But don't worry about it, it will work out just fine. If he truly loves you he will remember, that once, it was his first time, also. It won't be that bad, really...
2007-12-12 14:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by MamaBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't just being stupid . But if he is as nice as he sounds he will be fine if you don't know what you are doing... but still don't rush it.
2007-12-12 15:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by robeangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its like making out for the first time.
one of you may be experienced one of you may not be, but you think your gonna look stupid and inexperienced!!
its totally normal lol!
2007-12-12 14:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay ive felt like that before just be sure that everything you do, you feel comfortable with it.
2007-12-12 14:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by yumm. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋