why do kids ask questions like ' can you get pregnant from oral'?
ie whay should they have to... why dont parents and teachers go through things like this in detail especailly as its
A) Part of pretty much everyone's sex life nothing immoral about it
B) Part of foreplay an essentail part of sex and often the best and longest part
C) Why cut it its a legit question and if kids see it well whats the problem in that? everythign should be learnt and they will need to know too
D) many have lots of oral sex before they have convential sex especailly in teens
E) its a lot safer in that you cant get pregnant
F) the teacher and parent responsible for not teaching that can they be knee capt for the crime of keeping a kid dangerously ignorant
G) It encourages people to keep themselves clean and eat healthy
Ie why should they have to why not teach them this and everythign so they dont have to ask
2007-12-12
05:51:26
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asked by
Skippy K
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guess they're afraid if they go into detail the kids are going to want to do it
they are going to do it anyway... thats nature
2007-12-12
07:03:11 ·
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Oral sex is NOT really safer. True, you cannot get pregnant from it, but you can still get very serious STDs such as HIV, etc.
Which is what decent sex ed would cover
2007-12-12
07:03:47 ·
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Also basic facts are usless.
the fact is sex is a pleasure and emotionals thing and clinical lessons that dont poitnout the pleasure and fun and naugtiness and affection and love in sex are unrealisitic
2007-12-12
07:05:15 ·
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because parents freak out about sex ed in schools now, so we are uneducated about that subject.
2007-12-12 05:57:12
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answered by Anonymous
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They ask these questions because they do not know the answer. I do not think that it should be up to the school to teach them. It is a parents job to educate their children about sex. Unfortunately most of them don't. Then these kids get the wrong information from somewhere else. This is taught where my kids go to school but they already knew the information when they had the class. I do not know why some people think that the kids will not do it if they do not know about it. They will do it and they will be unsafe because they do not know any better. My children are well educated on the subject and are not afraid to ask a question if they need an answer. They have asked questions for their friends also. Being on here it is evident how much misinformation these kids are given.
2007-12-12 16:43:22
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answered by kim h 7
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While I agree that sex education in schools as it currently is, is inadequate, some of what you said above is incorrect.
Many parents would disagree with letter A, that there is nothing immoral about sex. Some parents are very religious and do not share your views on this.
Oral sex is NOT really safer. True, you cannot get pregnant from it, but you can still get very serious STDs such as HIV, etc.
And asking questions about sex is healthy. Even the best educated person about sex will ask questions when new information arises. While children should be educated better, they should never be discouraged from asking questions. Asking questions may save a child/teenager from getting pregnant, getting an STD, etc.
2007-12-12 14:00:44
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answered by Anonymous
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People think that if they tell kids and teenagers about sex, they'll go and do it. That fails because it rests on the faulty assumption that we teenagers need to have sex explained to us before we'll try it.
We just need to give the basic scientific facts. Forget anything about what you should or shouldn't do; just the facts.
You can't get pregnant from oral sex, but you can get STDs.
Any time you have unprotected sex, you risk getting pregnant.
Yeah it's awkward as hell, but have teenagers learn how to put condoms on. It's not as bad as having pregnant teenagers. Use bananas or something.
The tone of the class should be, "Look, if you decide to do this, this is what's going to happen. Better safe than sorry."
The kids who aren't going to have sex aren't going to be motivated to do it from a class. The kids who are going to have sex can't really be stopped, and it's better to have them use protection.
2007-12-12 14:55:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Kids probably ask that since it has the word "sex" in it.. and they dont really teach it in school at first until you reach high school, and by that time most kids know what people are doing.. but they do teach a lot about when you reach high school..
2007-12-12 16:26:05
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answered by Mercy 2
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I guess they're afraid if they go into detail the kids are going to want to do it. But you're right, maybe not go in step by step detail, but enough information so that the kids know how women become pregnant and what happens.
2007-12-12 13:59:05
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answered by skrdude8389 5
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because they want to know and if it is so annoying then just enor it.
2007-12-12 14:38:13
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answered by Anonymous
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