I have currently started seeing some1 new and he is erm how can i put this? really gifted down below! infact too gifted, when we have sex it hurts when he goes too deep and i have been gettin sharp pains in my womb lately can this damage me or am i ok? lol
2007-12-12 05:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well this aint my first time im 21 n got a kid but god dam even when i tell him to go slow and easy it hurts lol
2007-12-12 05:13:15 · update #1
I have this problem too! Just make sure you get plenty of foreplay and take it easy at first. Eventually your vagina will get used to accommodating him. But i feel for you, i really do... that pain you get when they hit you at the cervix... owweeeee!!!!
2007-12-12 05:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by MiniMed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can he damage you? Not serious damage, no, as you already know you've managed to fit a baby's head through that passage-way and recovered, so i wouldnt worry about this guy being too big!
However, you really need to have a word with him about this, you can't be enjoying the sex very much if it's causing you pain!
2007-12-13 09:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try using KY Jelly to give yourself more lubrication, but if you ask him to take things a bit more gentle when entering you and he dose not then it is time to show him the door. Making love should be the most pleasurable activity that you do, not something painful because your partner is not being considerate during your love making
2007-12-13 17:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is too big, then you have to tell him not to go so far inside you. If you are feeling pain or discomfort, then it is a sign you can get hurt. Just need to be careful.
Guys like feeling their penis go all the way in, it feels so good, plus the feeling of our bodies(hips) touching yours when we do.
He doesn't have to go all the way in to get pleasure. He can go half way and still get an orgasm and squirt.
2007-12-12 16:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I used to date a guy with the same problem. He was too big for me.
Some people aren't meant to be sexually compatible. It happens.
2007-12-12 13:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on whether this is your first time if so then u will adjust accordingly if not then just tell him not to go to deep it canot damage you but just ask him to take it easy
2007-12-12 13:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by oyinkan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going on top then you can control how much he's inside you.
2007-12-12 15:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it hurts it is not a good thing, tell him to ease up, it will take time for your body to acclimate to his size.
2007-12-12 13:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it could do seriouse damage,,,, buh dont take my word! ask a doctor or somethin
2007-12-12 13:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get use to this, i use to have this problem but it takes a while and then its fine as long as he is gentle.
2007-12-12 13:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋