I didn't choose to be this way; I can't help being who I am. I just find the female form to be alluring in a way that doesn't apply to males. When I see a beautiful woman, I want to take her in my arms, caress her smooth skin, and ravage her like a wild animal. When I see a good-looking man, I wonder about his diet and exercise schedule. If I weren't so fat, I wouldn't have to use craigslist. Nobody likes a chunky-butt plumper like me. I posted an ad and the first responders were men. I double-checked to make sure I was in the m4w section. There's a m4m for gays. I have nothing against gays. I don't use the f-word. That's a hateful word. But I am fat. Fat and lonely. I want companionship. Sexual companionship. The type I wouldn't want from a man. I don't spill over into w4w. I'm not a lesbian. I think the penis would annoy them. I'm so sad and lonely. And women don't like me. Why do these messages from indescriminate men bother me so much? Am I a bigot? Why can't I live and let live?
2007-12-12 04:48:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well no i just think you aren't comfortable getting massages from men.its normal most men aren't either. as for the women issue.get off of craigslist. put your self out there even if you think they wont like you,you'd be surprised.try going for women who are in your league not a girl who isn't because the truth is some just will never give you the time if day.make some new friends girls and guys and throw a party every now and then to get to know more people.the more people you know the more chances of you hooking up with someone or a better chance of someone knowing a women in the same situation as you who's looking for a love connection.people choose partners by knowing them personally not from what they read about you on craigslist.rememeber put your self out theres.good luck and don't be shy.
2007-12-12 04:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its good you are considering some changes in your life to be happier. The most important thing is to make some progress on your problems and carefully figure out what you want. It will take discipline and wisdom, but all great journeys begin with a first step, and I wouldn't waste any time getting started on yours. Lots of sit-ups is my best recommendation.
2007-12-12 12:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of living in misery may I make a suggestion. Join a gym and think about getting better and loving yourself more and women will love you trust me. I am sure you will find love while working on ridding your body of unwanted unhealthy fat.
2007-12-12 12:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke to laugh at serious answers that people might attempt to give you so you can get a good laugh right? YOu ramble.
2007-12-12 14:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by btownznd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't care about how fat you are, they care about money and next you either have to be smart & confident or make them laugh.
2007-12-12 13:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gordito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like a bigot to me. Anyone is entitled to resent unwanted advances.
2007-12-12 12:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On some level if you have to ask this question the answer is yes, but kudos for recognizing it as a problem and wanting to deal with it.
2007-12-12 12:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Cathryn 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
because you have no confidence in yourself....start excercising...work on the inside and you will find a girl......you aren not a bigot..
2007-12-12 12:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by trueimage_81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
o.o; Whats a bigot?
2007-12-12 13:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Zaku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a big fat stupid, ignorant, left wing, conservative, liberal, over-extended, uneducated, spotted, striped, thin-skinned BIGOT, BIGOT BIGOT. NOW, SHUT UP ! ! !
2007-12-12 13:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋