2007-12-12 04:30:39 · 16 answers · asked by KayKay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would try and find out exactly what is going on...I can only talk for me and my husband...we have verbally agreed to be separated for over 2 years now...legally we are still married but he does his own things and I do mine...I don't date because it is too complicated but if I meet someone I always tell them the truth upfront because I am roommates still with my husband and how do I explain that...it doesn't bother me that he dates and I have even met an ex-girlfriend of his...I care about him as friend but I know he deserves to be happy...for financial reasons we are still together and mainly the kids (plus it is sooooo expensive here in new york)...I know it is not right to date a married guy but I guess there are slight exceptions to every rule...just do whatever your heart tells you...I'm sure you'll do the right thing...
2007-12-12 04:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months and your just now finding out that he's married? Well that's your fault. You never called his house, you never went to his house? How could you not know that he was married or were you just in denial??
He's a jerk. Leave him alone and go find someone why you don't have to share
2007-12-12 05:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he getting a divorce? if he's not then you're his mistress and you are a better person (even though I don't know you) then being the "other woman" don't you deserve better? aren't you disgusted that you found out after the fact? Leave him! If he can cheat on his wife he will cheat on you, there is probably others.
2007-12-12 04:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should run, and run fast!!!!! He was being deceitful by not telling you right away, because I am sure he knew you wouldn't give him the time of day. Instead, he waited a couple months and now feelings are involved which is why you are confused.... You are worth more than that...... LEAVE!!!!!!
2007-12-12 04:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away before anyone gets hurt anymore than they are already going to. You're headed down the path to disaster in most cases.
2007-12-12 04:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you would of seen some of the signs>well know you know why ask dump the bum>Since he is a lier & used you get even tell wife>That will fix his as=s>
2007-12-12 05:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce is going to be final in the next two weeks stay with him; otherwise tell him to bag it and call you when it is final. This is bad news and you are the "other woman"
2007-12-12 04:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Janie J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that he is a piece of crap and there is no future for you
First he is decieving his wife
Second e has decieved you
With those two facts,,,,what would possibly lead you to believe that there is an open honest relationship in your future?
2007-12-12 04:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now, you don't want to be the known as the woman who broke up their marriage
2007-12-12 04:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by paige_laine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yei, in this busy world "love" in life had gone off as play for many people..
U specified as "dating " with that man...I think its just a part of life....
If u dont want to feel disturbed and also if u dont wanna disturb others happiness, leave off that man from ur life....
Life is to live peacefully, think of ur future fiancee,(be truthfull to him)....... dont go "dating with any unknown"....Dont get ride of ur happy future.........
SMILE ALWAYS :-)
2007-12-12 04:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋