how do u do it?

Question

whats the easiest way to tell ur mum that u mite be pregnant? and how do u get her to come round to the idea that if u are u wanna kep it? answer asap plz!

ps im onli 14!!!

im not with my bf anymore either will that make a difference to my mums opinion?

Answer 1

Make sure you are before you say a word??? If yes sit her down just you and her and tell her, She will be shocked @ first
But will soon be ok about it

Answer 2

I am assuming you are young. There is no easy way to tell your mom...trust me, been there! You just have to sit her down and be honest!!! As for her coming around...bank on that either never happening or when she holds her grandchild for the first time! I was 17 when pregnant but 18 at birth...my mom 'found out' before I could tell her and she wanted me to abort but I never even put the idea as an option. She cam around when I was delivering and then she got to hold her granddaughter. She regrets ever feeling how she did as my daughter is the center of our family now. Mostly she was just afraid I would have a hard life and go the path she did...I knew it would be hard but I have proved her wrong. Just make sure you have a plan before you sit her down. Show her you are taking this very seriously! Also if your bf could be there (if he supports this) then make sure he is there and proves he supports you to your mom. It is hard for moms to be ok with their babies having babies, you will understand once you become a mother!!! Having kids is no easy task, for anyone...they are tough but a true gift from God! Good Luck!!!

EDIT:
Don't use words like accident or mistake...if you plan to keep the child, you will regret it! I believe all things happen for a reason!

EDIT#2
Have you told your bf? That will make a great difference as your mother may use this against you!!!!! Being a single mom is hard and you are young so your mom will most likely take the rough end of the stick as you need to finish school and work too!!!!!!

Answer 3

So you will be 15 or nearly 15 when you have the baby.
First of all take a pregnancy test when you are at least 7 days late for your period, using the first urine you pass when you wake up in the morning (the hormones are more concentrated then). If it is positive, sit your mum down when there will be no interruptions, tell her you have a problem and hope she will help you the best she can, then tell her. yes she will probably hit the roof, but when she calms down, she will help you if she is any kind of a mother. She will help you decide what your best options are. tell her you know you have made the biggest mistake ever, but you are grown up enough to want to see this through with her help.
Good luck. But don't forget it is going to be very hard work for you, but many girls do make a success of bringing up a baby so young. I was just turned 18 when i first gave birth. Yes it was hard but i wouldn't change my daughter for the world, i am now a great grand mother and proud of it, my daughter gives me so much love i know it was worth the effort of bringing her up.

Answer 4

Girl, there is no easy way. I would wait till I am 100% sure that you are pregnat before you do. It is not an easy thing anyway. That is nothing any parent would want to hear from her 14 year child. Keeping it is completely up to you. You must understand now that if we want to walk the walk of an adult we must also take responsability for our actions. Bringing a child into this world is never a sin. It is just difficult when you are not prepared for it. Read as much about babies and babies needs. Prepare yourself for this event if it does happen. Take responsability for your actions only then will you be able to prove to your mom that even if it's not necessarily the right time. You will make the best of it. Good luck

Answer 5

you certainly are in a puddle arent you
well being 14 your mum will likely be disapointed at first and may act strange when you tell her, allow her to calm down it is a big shock to every mum whether you are 14 or 40, but she most likely to come round and be supportive.
the best way is to ask her to spare some time after lunch away from others to talk . talk to her quietly about this and it is best not to say what would you say if i am preg and i want it it is likely to cause commotion but appologise for acting in such manner with your boyfriend and tell her you wish to take responsibility for your actions and hope she will be there for you. your mum will see you mature and more likely to be calm. dont want to change your mind but i am a mum of 2 boys i am 20 i had my first child at 18 lived on my own trying to fight for accommodation from council as i live far from my parents and had very little support just my dad who called alot bless him. it is hard for anyone becoming a parent for the first time. do you feel you can cope , would it be better adopting or fostering or asking your mum to take charge of the child and you can still be the mum and have your life you are young my sweet heart think of your education think of your career goals think of your finance and stability be careful and always wear prtection pregnancy is the nicest thing you can catch

Answer 6

I would love to play the "i'm the cool mom" thing but I have to say... if you were my daughter at 14 and having sex, let alone get pregnant... I would lock you in your room and show you a video of a real birth taking place (and not the nice part when everyone is all happy at the end) I mean the actual labor and birth with NO drugs.

I'm hoping to GOD this is a phony post because at this point I'm not letting my son, who is now 10, out with girls until he's 17 or 18. Jeesh!! I can't imagine my boys getting a 14 year old pregnant!! I WOULD KILL THEM!!!!

Answer 7

you need to first make sure 100% that you are pregnante, if you are then try to be brave this isn't going to be easy for either of you, but if your mum does go off the deep end ask for her help and be sincer after all no matter how old you are you are always someones baby that will probablly need help at what ever stage in life you are. best of luck!!

Answer 8

Telling your mum that you are pregnant should be the easy part. Bringing up the baby will be the hard part. Best of luck with both.

Answer 9

Sometimes when you are having a hard time verbalizing things it helps to write it down. Write her a letter and have her read it while you are there. This way she is being told but you don't have to choke out the words. You will still have to talk to her and deal with it but it might make the initial "mom, I'm pregnant" easier to get out there. Good luck

Answer 10

You just need to come right out and tell her there is a possiblility. It's going to be hard no matter how you go about saying it, so just sit her down and explain things to her the best way that you can.