2007-12-12 03:43:27 · 33 answers · asked by kez 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
by the way ppl we live in the uk and it is legal and yes his parents know about us so santa ave it
2007-12-12 03:58:57 · update #1
What is wrong with everyone is only an 8 year difference!! Its perfectly legal here in the UK, im guessing your all from America!!
2007-12-12 07:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you are in a steady relationship with jobs then I'm sure they'll be ok about it.
If I were you though I'd not say anything until after Christmas then it'll not spoil the festivites.
You are 25 though and not a baby, it's you're life and as long as you feel ok about it then that's all that matters. Of course if he's not working and expecting his Mum and Dad to support then it might be a different matter.
Good luck and congrats on the pregnancy, hope it all goes well, have a great Christmas and let us know the outcome.
;)
2007-12-12 04:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Soup Dragon 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you've been together awhile and know you're going to be together for a long time, then just tell his parents this may not be the ideal way to start a family but you're both ready for the responsibility.
2007-12-12 04:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure why so many people are being so nasty to you! it is not rape!!!! i doubt if it was a 17 year old girl with a older guy there wouldn't be so much outrage!
Anyhow, it is his parents, let him do it on his own, they may be disappointed / angry etc for a while but they will get used to the idea soon enough - hopefully all being well by the time spring comes they will be out looking a cute baby toys / clothes etc. He just needs to let them know!
Good luck and hope everything goes well!
2007-12-12 04:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by MyCatty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy cow. Its called statutory rape. He is not an adult yet. His parents could sue you or send you to jali. I am not trying to scare you. But you should have been a little more careful than this. First of all I would try to wait to tell anyone until he is 18 and hopefully this will be really soon. I am 10 weeks prego and I am not showing at all and didnt show until 5 months with my last. You could get really lucky and try to hide it for as long as possible until he is considered an adult.... GOOD LUCK YOU WILL NEED IT!
2007-12-12 03:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by ••○ PitBuLL ○•• 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Do his parents already know about you and him (age difference)?
If yes, just tell them. If they accepted the age difference, it will not be hard for them to accept the fact you are pregnant. But, you must be prepared for them either way to question if he is the father.
If no, just tell them. They are going to be upset. They may even press charges against you since he is still a minor in most states. You must be prepared for them to deny paternity.
Good luck and I hope the best works out for your child.
2007-12-12 03:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed and Happy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well his parents know about you two, so they must have considered this may be a possibility! I think just tell them - before someone else does, they're going to know eventually,one way or another - make it your way (the 2 of you I mean). They will react reasonably or not, whenever you do it!
2007-12-12 04:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by groovymaude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Considering this was one of your last dilemmas(see below) I would say you need to consider the consequences of actions you're taking. It's hard to believe you.
"My mates b/f told me he loves me wat should i do?
they've been together just over 2 yrs they have a child together but he said he wants to leave her and i feel the same as him we've liked each other since the first time we seen each other ..... help!!!
* 8 months ago
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8 months ago
he's not married to her she treats him like **** i have a child aswell as him and he's already told her that he wants to leave her"
2007-12-12 03:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all you who keep having a go about the age want to shut the ****up as it is not about the age she wants advice on telling his parents.
I would just come out and tell them the chances are your worrying over nothing and the sooner you tell them the better it will. you haven't broken the law and as long as your sure it's what you want then go for it!!!!
2007-12-12 04:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by rusty2007 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well i would say that you tell them gently and in a open environment like a restaurant, as in i think they may go ballistic and that way they might not get mad if its in a public place. Sorry why are you seeing someone of 17, he's much too young for this.
2007-12-12 03:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋