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I only met my grandmother once, but I feel I loved her with all of my heart until the day she died.

I feel like I've loved the late HK actress, Anita Mui ever since I saw her films when I was a boy. Her music continues to inspire me.

So, is this really love?

2007-12-12 02:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I would hesitate to say that it's actual romantic love, but you can certainly love someone w/o ever seeing them or knowing them. I lost my grandfather at only one-year-old, so I obviously do not remember him even though he'd known me. However, I always considered my feelings toward him as being love. My grandmother died 16 years before I was born, but I feel the same about her as I do my late grandfather. That all being said, I will assure you that you did/do in fact, love your late grandmother. As far as the "love" you mentioned that you felt for the actress, I am quite sure you could consider that as a type of "love". We all, at some point in our lives, feel immense adoration for someone of celebrity status. I remember when I was an early teen that I absolutely consumed myself w/ Jonathan Knight from the boy-band/pop group New Kids on the Block. Did I feel love for him? I probably did have a sort of love for him and the group. I admired him for his talents (whatever that might have been -- lol), and I absolutely loved their performances. Their are sooo... many different facets of "love" that some people don't realize. The words I relate to love can be applied to friends, family, pets, celebrities, etc., for example, affection, adoration, devotion, care, attraction, friendship, fondness, worship, etc. Anyway, just a little insight for you. Hope it helps!

2007-12-12 03:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laura H 2 · 1 0

There are many kinds of love..Yours perhaps is affection, admiration...In any case, it is a beautiful and healthy feeling.

2007-12-12 02:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dl5s 3 · 0 0

when i see bill clinton, i love him. when i see arnold schwarzenegger, i love him. when i see jay chou, i love him......

but i know all these are not true love, maybe i called them adoration, admiration, fondness, but not that kind of boy-girl type of love.

2007-12-12 03:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 4 · 0 0

Admire perhaps, even lust after, but love...I don't really think so. That takes time.

2007-12-12 03:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

yes, but it is not usual

2007-12-12 02:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0 0

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