I'm newly married and I'm currently experiencing a situation that is new to me - that is: I only erect when I hear, touch or see my wife.
However, reading or viewing any sexual material does not affect me at all.
I really am very happy about this fact right now. However, I just need to know if that is normal.
2007-12-12 01:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by Mustang 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He he he ... don't worry, it will pass. It's just honeymoon goggles.
Soon enough, you will start to see flaws in each other, and have to learn to overlook them. You will see other women that excite you, and you will have to train yourself to look once, briefly and turn your attention back to your wife. The WAY in which you love her will also change over time, and that has different implications for both of you.
The real world has challenges and issues. You'll run into them. But for now, enjoy the love goggles.
2007-12-12 05:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by ButtonGear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the moment it is not so unusual. Remember that your erections are emotional as well as physical. You say you are newlyweds. We don't know the extent of your sexual history so we can't say exactly, but for most people after the excitement of the honeymoon phase of a year or two is over, routine sets in. Then you will notice some change in your libido. This length of time will depend on the individual. Or maybe it won't happen. but as an excited newlywed it may not be the average but it does happen often enough to be "normal" in a sense. Enjoy it. If it fades a bit don't worry. A little space and relaxation apart can lead to starting your sex life anew. Do all you can to keep you both happy and give her room to breath. Happy for you and hope it lasts.
2007-12-12 10:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by virg922 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, it's entirely possible... it's just rare. Congratulations!
Most likely it's some subconscious suggestion in your mind that you love your wife so much that no other woman is good enough or something along those lines. Regardless of what it is that causes it, hopefully this will last you long and serve you well. Be assured that it makes you better than a lot of men that look to stray from their wives. Congrats again!
2007-12-12 10:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its entirely abnormal that you would take the time to ask this question. Obviously if you are worried about it then you are NOT very happy with this fact.
2007-12-12 10:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit unusual... but there certainly isn't anything wrong with it. Merry Christmas
2007-12-12 10:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal, my BF is is same way and I am grateful for that. Don't worry about it.
2007-12-12 12:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it just means that you love her and that you are commited. it means you are a good guy. you could probably be arroused by others if you tryed.....but....why? if you can satisfy yourself and stay faithful, why complain?
2007-12-12 10:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by yep....thats right. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should appreciate this.
2007-12-12 10:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is normal...
have a good marriage ..XD
2007-12-12 10:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by FNU b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww thats nice. idk if its normal. but its a good thing, right?
2007-12-12 10:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by EDl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋