ok so im 19 and me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 4-5 months now and still no luck y is that im young and my partner is 21 so hes young so y cant i fall pregnant i have sex on my ovulating days i yah no luck! it seems that all my mates are pregnant and havnt even tryed! im not 1 of those people that stress over it or anything i no yous are ganna say go to a doctor and stuff but i was just woundering if any1 else had or has this problem thanks heaps
please no your so young answers!! were ready
2007-12-12 01:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by *manda 34 1/2weeks with #1* 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
WHO CARES ABOUT THE SPELLING GET OVER IT
2007-12-12 01:35:34 · update #1
You say you are having sex on your "ovulating days" but I wonder whether that is true. Are you using an ovulation calendar? Because those are really inaccurate for a lot of women. If you really want to get pregnant, you should be charting your basal temperatures and your cervical fluid to determine when you ovulate. Good luck.
2007-12-12 01:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by no5no5 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is with all of you "young " people trying to get pregnant? If you and your partner are serious enough about each other to try to have a baby, why aren't you married? What do you both do for a living? Do you have a good enough job to give a child what they need?, And don't say that all they need is love, because that's crap. I am a Federal employee and my husband works for the state and we have two children and have been trying for the third for three years. They are expensive. I have yet to hear my 13 year old say all they need for school is love. No clothes, supplies, shoes, lunch money etc.... You younger people should know this better than us in they're 30's. You were just there 2-3 years ago. And if you didn't finish school, GO BACK TO SCHOOL!!!!!!!! You can't help with homework, if you don't know how to do it. So, if you fall under any of these things, I'm sorry but I just can't wish you any baby dust. And if by chance you are doing well enough to be married and have a home. Good luck! You know, spell check comes with your computer. Use it. Even if you are not the brightest person in the world, why would you want everybody else to know.
2007-12-12 12:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by stephybinkley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll second the just relax comment, stress is the #1 enemy of those ttc. You are both young, there is no need to be in such a rush, who cares what your mates have been up to.
The old foggie grownup in me has to say this part please forgive if you don't want to hear it...go ahead and take some time to plan your future, get ahead in your career, have that nice wedding...then get on the baby train. When your mates are struggling with diaper costs and day care bills your live in nanny could be making life easy for you.
If there is just no waiting and you are otherwise both healthy then just remember even in the best of circumstances...it can take up to a year! Patience, patience patience...it'll happen
Best of luck to you and happy holidays!
2007-12-12 09:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~Just 1 good egg~ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am 20 ( Had a B day 2 weeks ago) and I have been ttc#1 for 4 years now, I am in the same shoe as you all of my school mates are now preg and its hurting me deeply, I use to use the ovulation calender on the net but it never seems to work, I went to the dr and was diagnois with pocs its a diease that makes you not ot ovulate, its best you go to a gyno to get check out to make sure you are ovulating,
2007-12-12 10:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your not the only one sweetie me and my friance are both young im 19 and hes 20 and i have the same problem all my friends are getting pregnant without trying, and me just no luck. so all i can say is goodluck and if you need to talk to someone that knows what your going through im here. all we can do is pray and try to go with our ovulation days.
GOODLUCK SWEETIE.
2007-12-12 09:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by heather r 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Im 22, and pregnant.
Ive been trying for a year!!! Finally happened, and I got my fist apt next week. Im so terrified I had two m/c already.
I was TOTALLY stressing, actually I am stressing a lot.
But If your not stressed, it will happen. You just got to make sure you bedding on the right days..
Good luck.
2007-12-12 09:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ღ♥Mom of Alyssa and Kamden♥ღ♥ 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Just relax and have fun with the game. It could come when you're less expected. If that wouldn't help, then you've to see a doctor.
2007-12-12 09:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by leon adrianto 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u can even get preggy even if your 16. so whats your cycle? s it 30 day cycle? if it is try to hve sex on the 14th after your menstruation that the time you ovulate.
2007-12-12 09:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by jolly12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As soon as you are patient and enjoy sex with your partner then it will happen. The stress of it all isn't good for your body and can possibly be throwing things off track. Relax! Let your body do the work.
2007-12-12 09:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
every one around me is getting prego also..... i am 5 days late and i took a test today and still neg, i am going to get a blood test done in a week. all i can say is keep trying it took my cousin a year of trying before she got prego good luck to the both of us
2007-12-12 09:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋